Eric van der Voort,PsyD, CST

Eric van der Voort,PsyD, CST

Telehealth Available
Professions: Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Psychologist
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

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San Diego, California 92103
Palo Alto, California 94020

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My Approach to Helping

If you have concerns about your sex or sexuality (orientation, desire discrepancies, performance anxiety, porn use, interest in kink and BDSM, or being in a non-monogamous or poly relationship), the search for the right provider can feel overwhelming. No matter how big or small your sexual and relationship concerns might seem, you are not alone. Just like you, many people find it difficult to navigate the complexities of sex, arousal, and relationships. However, those who get the right support for their mental and sexual health are often calmer, more confident, experience more pleasure, and feel more fulfilled in life overall.

As a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I specialize in kink-affirming sex therapy of all kinds, including helping straight-identified men to understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women. Tailored to your unique individual needs and goals, my approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based.

If you want to better understand and appreciate yourself as a sexual being, or if you would simply like to better manage life’s stresses, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and explore new ways of pursuing pleasure, then you're in the right place! Contact me today so we can discuss your goals and how to help you reach them. I look forward to hearing from you.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

Issues related to:
- problems with sexual performance and desire
- use of pornography
- assertive communication in relationships
- non-monogamy or polyamory
- exploring sexuality and eroticism
- incorporating kink or BDSM practices
- depression and anxiety
- substance use

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Ages I Work With

  • Adults


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Adults with concerns about sex and sexuality, such as exploring sexuality and eroticism, misuse of pornography or sex, performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, exploring kink and BDSM practices, and navigating polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships.

Industries & Communities Served

  • Entertainment Industry
  • First Responder/Medical Professionals
  • LGBTQ+
  • Self-Employed and Freelance Professionals

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Anxiety
  • Breakup
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Drug and Alcohol Addiction
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Men's Issues
  • Military and Veterans Issues
  • Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sex Addiction
  • Sexuality / Sex Therapy
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
  • Worry

Types of Therapy

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