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Coping with Grief: Why Forgiveness Matters So Much
May 23, 2014 .
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Death is a subject that is generally off-limits in our society. We spend much of our time denying its existence and its inexorable approach, even though we all realize that we will die ... Read More
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To Thine Own Self Be Kind: 8 Random Acts of Self-Kindness
March 15, 2014 .
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The world can be a cold and cruel place, and as such, every display of warmth and goodness makes a difference. Performing random acts of kindness for those around you—such as opening ... Read More
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Subject Yourself or Protect Yourself?
November 27, 2013 .
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Recently, my son told me of a situation he had decided to avoid. To sum it up, he said, “I’d rather protect than subject.” I thought this encompassed many lessons in a ... Read More
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How to Turn Self-Hatred into Self-Compassion
November 12, 2013 .
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“I’m such a loser.” “I can’t do anything right.” “I’m ugly.” Too often, people brutally judge and attack themselves. If everyone treated others as poorly as they treat ... Read More
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When Did You Become Unforgivable?
August 19, 2013 .
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I see many people who struggle with self-esteem issues. In fact, self-esteem issues and depression almost always occur together. Which one causes the other is not always clear, but the ... Read More
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Making Peace with Money
July 15, 2013 .
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“I am indeed rich, since my income is superior to my expenses, and my expenses are equal to my wishes.” —Edward Gibbon Self-love, self-respect, and self-compassion are all helpful ... Read More
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Breaking the Cycle of Self-Judgment
July 8, 2013 .
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Choices have consequences. Seems obvious, right? Choose well and we get to enjoy the positive consequences. Choose poorly and we usually suffer the negative consequences. Often the consequences—good ... Read More
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Buddhism and Mental Health: Interview with Tara Brach, PhD
March 4, 2013 .
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Tara Brach, PhD, clinical psychologist and peace activist, is one of the most widely respected teachers of Buddhist meditation and spiritual awakening. Her teachings, which blend Western ... Read More
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The Spiral Path of Change
April 2, 2012 .
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All of life, all of learning and growth, all of healing follows a spiral path. We return over and over to a place of pain or suffering in order to master the lessons held therein. Each ... Read More
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Self-Compassion, Part II: Recognizing Your Limits
September 2, 2011 .
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Most people would agree that having a compassionate stance towards oneself is desirable. But how do you cultivate self-compassion? Let’s quickly define the term. In this article, “compassion” ... Read More