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Mindfulness Meditation and Trauma: Proceed with Caution
October 21, 2015 .
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As Roger—not his real name—sensed his body, he began to notice a deep contraction in his heart that pained him deeply. He had been hearing from his meditation teachers that he had to ... Read More
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What’s So Great About Group Therapy, Anyway?
October 13, 2015 .
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I was at a party chatting with a stranger when he asked me what sort of work I do. I told him I am a marriage and family therapist who specializes in group therapy. “Group therapy!” ... Read More
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Change Is a Choice: Nurturing Neuroplasticity in Your Life
September 30, 2015 .
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Can an old dog learn new tricks? Can we change in adulthood? Many of us struggle with this question as we make New Year’s resolutions that we fail to meet: eating healthier, exercising, ... Read More
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Psychogenic Nonepileptic Seizures: Anxiety vs. Epilepsy
September 29, 2015 .
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A seizure is a sudden and unexpected loss of control accompanied by abnormal body movements or convulsions, a loss of consciousness, or both. Though epileptic seizures are caused by sudden, ... Read More
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The Power of Neuro-Linguistic Programming to Transform Trauma
September 28, 2015 .
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His name was Zack. Zack was a 150-pound, 2-year-old Newfoundland dog—my buddy. Wild at heart—at best only ever semi-domesticated—he loved nothing more than to escape from our three-quarters-of-an-acre ... Read More
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What do EMDR, Running, and Drumming Have in Common?
September 1, 2015 .
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Nope, this isn’t a strange riddle where someone is found in the desert in a scuba suit. The answer to the question posed above is actually pretty simple: brain integration. What is that? ... Read More
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A Family Systems Pizza: Self-Differentiation and Extra Cheese
August 6, 2015 .
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The key to tasty pizza is for each part—the crust, the sauce, the cheese, and the toppings—to be unique and distinct, but to blend into a well-balanced and delicious whole. Live life ... Read More
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How to Help Children Adjust to the Arrival of a New Sibling
July 28, 2015 .
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A happy event though it is, integrating a new baby into the family is a huge transition. It’s a huge transition for Mom and Dad, of course, but it’s also a huge transition for older ... Read More
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Trust in the Process: Sitting with Not Knowing in Therapy
July 22, 2015 .
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One aspect of psychotherapy is that the person in therapy and the therapist participate in a process larger than what either or both can directly observe. Something can be happening in ... Read More
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Thoughts, Emotions, and the Body: Mindfulness for Anxiety
July 15, 2015 .
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Anxiety can show itself in many forms. Some can be very painful and impairing, and we may need professional help to deal with them. But anxiety is something that everyone experiences at ... Read More
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Tug-of-War of Trauma Recovery: Our Inside and Outside Selves
July 9, 2015 .
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We may have experienced various traumatic experiences in childhood, whether it be abuse, neglect, abandonment, or ongoing misattunements from caregivers that impact our ability to feel ... Read More
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The Expectation Trap: How Wanting Is Making You Angry
July 7, 2015 .
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In my articles on anger management, I frequently talk about how anger gets disguised as another emotion. Conversely, I also emphasize the reverse: other emotions left unnoticed and unacknowledged ... Read More