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Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy: Q&A with Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis
November 13, 2020 .
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Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), developed by Dr. Albert Ellis in 1955, laid the foundation for the cognitive therapies. REBT is often taught in academic counseling programs and ... Read More
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How (Sincere) Compliments Can Help You Connect with Others
February 22, 2017 .
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As a mental health therapist, I often work with people who have difficulty making and keeping healthy friendships, as well as other relationships (coworkers, family members, partners, and ... Read More
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Resilience and Overwhelm: How Full Is Your ‘Container’?
February 8, 2017 .
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Somatic psychotherapists often use the informal metaphor of a “container” in describing a person’s state of overwhelm or resilience. It’s a simple concept: If Janelle is experiencing ... Read More
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Recognizing Enmeshment in Alienated Family Systems
January 30, 2017 .
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Enmeshment, a family dynamic that can be described as blurred boundaries between members, can make it difficult or impossible for a child to develop an individual sense of self because ... Read More
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How Holistic Sex Therapy Helps Men with Sexual Functioning
January 23, 2017 .
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No matter how comfortable you may be with your sexuality, the idea of sex therapy can be intimidating. Many of the people I work with in sex therapy struggle with sexual functioning or ... Read More
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Is Your Ability to Receive Love Affecting the Love You Give?
January 16, 2017 .
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Recently, when I put my 6-year-old son to bed, he reminded me of something I can sometimes lose sight of, particularly when I’m anxious or worried. As I kissed him on the forehead, he ... Read More
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How Person-Centered Therapy Can Help Transplant Recipients
January 3, 2017 .
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When a person is in need of an organ transplant, a process referred to in medical circles as a “transplant work-up” begins. This process is lengthy, as it is necessary to make sure ... Read More
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The Power of the Breath in Calming the Nervous System
November 30, 2016 .
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People seek counseling for any number of reasons, but something every person I have ever seen had in common is wanting to feel better quickly. I can hardly blame them. When I am not feeling ... Read More
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Felt Sense: The Vitality and Liveliness of Our Inner World
November 22, 2016 .
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As we begin, here is an invitation for you: In your mind’s eye, create a mental picture of a wolf. The wolf is alone; perhaps he is a young male who’s just left his mother’s side, ... Read More
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How 12 Minutes a Day Can Change Your Life
November 17, 2016 .
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What do you think of when you hear the word “meditation”? Perhaps you imagine a Tibetan monk tucked away in silence in a centuries-old monastery. Maybe you envision a crystal-wielding ... Read More
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DBT Treatment Assumptions for Teens in Group Skills Training
November 2, 2016 .
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Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based therapeutic model originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan. She found that traditional cognitive behavioral therapies did not always ... Read More
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How DBT Can Improve Your Communication Outcomes
October 19, 2016 .
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In today’s world, it is hard to stay truly connected with others. We are so used to our digital, screen-to-screen interactions that having in-person, face-to-face conversations can ... Read More