Rationalization is an attempt to logically justify immoral, deviant, or generally unacceptable behavior. In Freud’s classic psychoanalytic theory, rationalization is a defense mechanism, an unconscious attempt to avoid addressing the underlying reasons for a behavior.
Rationalizing an event may help individuals maintain self-respect or avoid guilt over something they have done wrong. In many cases, rationalization is not harmful, but continuous self-deception, when a person consistently makes excuses for destructive behavior, can become dangerous.
Examples of Rationalization
Most of us engage in rationalization on a semi-regular basis. A person might account for a bad mood or general rude behavior by explaining that bad traffic affected the morning commute, for example. Someone who is passed over for a promotion might rationalize the disappointment by claiming to not have wanted so much responsibility after all.
Rationalization can be adaptive in that it protects people from unsafe emotions and motivations, but it can also contribute to maladaptive behavior and psychological concerns. Rationalization can become an obstacle in psychotherapy and can interfere with platonic and romantic relationships. An abusive partner who justifies behavior based on the abused partner’s failure to meet demands or by claiming the partner was otherwise uncooperative is engaging in pathological rationalization.
Rationalizations for behaviors can seem like logical, clear explanations, but trained psychologists strive to recognize the difference between logically explaining one’s behavior and covering up underlying emotions and motives.
Rationalization as a Defense Mechanism
Sigmund Freud described rationalization as a defense mechanism and the ego’s attempt to make a particular action acceptable to the superego—the part of a person demanding moral behavior. He also explained some motives for behavior are too uncomfortable or painful for people to face. An adult might be afraid of the dark as a result of being molested at night during childhood. That person might rationalize the fear by emphasizing that being unable to see one’s surroundings is dangerous or by pointing out most burglaries occur at night. According to Freud, understanding the unconscious motivations for behavior is an important precursor to healing.
Although contemporary psychologists have discredited or abandoned much of Freudian psychology, rationalization is generally accepted as a common defense mechanism.
Addressing Rationalization in Therapy
Contemporary mental health professionals may not use traditional Freudian methods to understand rationalizations, but they do frequently work to help people in therapy access and understand the underlying motives for their feelings and behavior. A therapist who suspects rationalization of a person who may have experienced a traumatic or affecting event might encourage the person to confront the event honestly in order to address it in a healthy manner and begin the healing process.
A person’s desire for esteem can lead to excessive rationalization, and it is important for a person to be mindful of rationalizations to avoid ending up in a cycle of constant deception. Therapists can help people uncover their reasons for excessive rationalization or develop possible strategies to combat their emotional dishonesty. For example, a person who constantly rationalizes an inability to keep appointments with friends might consider possible reasons for not actually wanting to keep those appointments or see those friends.
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- Simon, G. (2009, March 16). Understanding Rationalization: Making Excuses as an Effective Manipulation Tactic. Retrieved from http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/17/rationalization-as-manipulation-tactic/.
Last Updated: 01-29-2016
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ClaireJanuary 12th, 2018 at 7:28 PM
Have have struggled to be honest and rationalized in many situations as the expense of others . I’m stubborn
ClaireJanuary 12th, 2018 at 7:31 PM
My rationalisation & lies to protect myself has harmed others. And stubbornness has meant no amends to those I have harmed
kejlaMay 23rd, 2020 at 2:38 AM
how can we treat a person with rationalization mechanism defense. I mean what kind of therapy therapist use?
RobertMay 6th, 2021 at 12:58 PM
It is something that takes therapy my something that can be explained
MichaelMay 17th, 2021 at 2:15 AM
really impactful…. i actually rationalize alot
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