James Foley,LCSW SOTS Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity, Sex Addiction, Expert

James Foley,LCSW SOTS Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity, Sex Addiction, Expert

Professions: Counselor, Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a certified professional.
Primary Credential: LCSW - 44SC05908100
Secondary Credential: LCSW - 10800
Billing and Insurance:

I do not work with insurance companies

Fees: I do not work with insurance companies
Fees: No insurance accepted. Self Pay only. $400 per one hour session
Licensed in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut Florida, Utah, Texas , Ohio, and California.
Expert Sexual Misbehavior Telehealth Treatment to New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Texas, Utah, Ohio, and California

I help persons not act out sexual misbehaviors.

I stand apart from other "experts" in sexual misbehavior, with 26 years experience entirely in sexual misbehavior. I don't do "sex therapy", I don't do "regular therapy", and I am not someone who sees an entire variety sexual related issues, while somehow portraying themselves as competent to treat sexual misbehavior.

I only see sexual misbehavior cases. I would like to help you protect the life that you know and love by helping you not act out your sexual misbehaviors.

I have over a quarter century & 40k hours of expert treatment for sexual misbehavior provided, I give you an evidence based, research oriented treating of “sex addiction”, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, App Hook-Ups, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, compulsivity, Professional Sexual Misconduct, serial affairs, Child porn, as a Certified sexual misbehavior professional.

That is, I am a highly trained, non judgmental, clinician that will use my superior insights to help you improve faster.

I am about using my gifts given me by my creator, the decades of learning and knowledge given to me by my hardworking and trusting clients, and the expert training given to me by the best Universities, ...to all result in me being the highly skilled sexual misbehavior specialist clinician I now am, so I can use those superior abilities in stopping sexual misbehavior, to help others preserve the life that they love from consequences created by those sexual misbehaviors.

I am proud to be the kind, insightful, accepting, flexible and skilled therapist that I am today and I enjoy improving clients lives with specialist skills and knowledge that they would otherwise be unlikely to find. I am sad when clients describe previous therapists who were unhelpful as those clinicians only claimed to know these issues. I am proud to help persons with the specialist help they needed.

I use the cognitive model to point out the misperceptions of, or erroneous thoughts about, situations, people, and life events, that influence their emotional and more importantly behavioral responses. I skillfully identify and correct these behavior creating distorted beliefs, I influence the clients processing of information, and give new corrected views of distorted thoughts.

Currently accepting clients for specialist elite 26 yrs experience self pay practice. Love to hear from you. I do NOT accept Insurance. I accept Mastercard, Visa, American Express, Discover.

I attended a prestigious, clinical, psychotherapist producing, Fordham Graduate School, ClinicalPsychotherapy MSW, (Selective Admission) Program, in person NOT online, in Westchester County NY.

Licensed Psychotherapist NY Lic # R059367-1
Licensed Psychotherapist CT Lic # 10800
Licensed Psychotherapist NJ Lic # 44SC05908100
Licensed Psychotherapist CA Lic # 101416
Licensed Psychotherapist FL Lic # SW19525
Licensed Psychotherapist UT Lic # 12830507-3501
Licensed Psychotherapist OH Lic # I.2203614
Licensed Psychotherapist TX Lic # 107691

Please phone me directly, you will speak to me, not my staff, at 718-208-6135
Free Initial Consultation
Weekend Availability
Evening Availability


13 James St
Morristown , New Jersey 07960
2 Greenwich Office Park
Greenwich, Connecticut 06831

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My Approach to Helping

I truly enjoy helping clients rebuild their life, change their thinking, change their behaviors, and learn how to have a peaceful existence free of self destructive acts such as cheating or unwanted sexual behavior towards others.

It is my impression that my clients enjoy my direct but very compassionate style, where we waste no time in seeing how they may make changes in their thinking and perceptions, so that they may find out how they can have this be the last of the chaos and pain created by their sexual misbehavior.

My countless clients over these decades have educated me on the oldest, and the newest, ways in which men act out self destructively through sexual behaviors, and it is rare that a client will bring me a misbehavior I have not seen many, many, times before.

I have a genuine and caring therapeutic relationship with my clients, a relationship that is created by my deep respect for my clients, and this relationship allows me to very respectfully confront their erroneous thoughts that can lead to further sexual misbehavior. The more I respect my clients, the more they allow me to "go there", and correct their misunderstandings of their own behavior.

I offer a higher quality sexual misbehavior treatment for clients who want higher level of skills, knowledge that only my multiple decades of specialist experience can offer.

I offer my clients my expert, evidence based, research oriented treating of
“Sex Addiction”,
Serial Affairs-Infidelity-Cheating,
Child Porn, Prostitution,
"Seeking Arrangements",
Smart Phone Apps,
Cam Girls, Strip Clubs,
Massage Parlors.
"Happy Endings",
"Sugar Daddy",
Sexual Compulsivity,
Professional Sexual Misconduct,
Sex Offenses,
...all as a Certified sexual misbehavior professional.

My unique level of experience and knowledge brings a level of insight that can can have clients create lasting change, faster self management, improved mood, and reduced recidivism, all while being respected and valued.

Love to speak to you, and I would like to help you protect the life you have.

Please take advantage of the FREE 20 minute phone consult I offer everyone, this free conversation is to see if I am the right clinical expert for your sexual misbehavior situation.

I hope to hear from you soon.
$400 per one hour session, sorry-no insurance.
Please phone me directly, you will speak to me, not my staff.

More Info About My Practice

The entire clinical relationship and process of therapy is about me helping my clients develop a lifelong plan to not act out these or similar self destructive actions, clients gaining new insights and new views to create different outcomes.

My clients and I have the shared goal of a peaceful and enjoyable future for them, one that is free of this embarrassment and shame.

In person offices in...(although COVID has me doing Tele-health)
60 E 42nd St, New York, NY 10165
13 James St, Morristown, NJ 07960
2 Greenwich Office Park, Greenwich, CT 0683
445 Hamilton Ave, White Plains, NY 10601
118 N Bedford Rd, Mt Kisco, NY 10549
Please phone me directly, you will speak to me, not my staff.
$400 per one hour session, sorry-no insurance.

What I Love about Being a Psychotherapist

Being quoted in Rolling Stone Magazine as the Sexual Misbehavior Expert I am is pretty darn cool.
Sorry for the flex, but I usually just spend my time with my specialist practice seeing clients, and not sharing my expertise with the media.
As I grew up in the Rock era, Rolling Stone magazine has always been mythic level cool to me.


On the Fence About Going to Therapy?

If you are engaging in some sexual behavior which creates external consequences, such as the breakup of a marriage, loss of a job, losing a professional license, then my opinion is it is easier, cheaper, faster, and more pleasant, to address the matter with professional treatment specific to the matter at hand. This applies if you have been discovered once, five times, or never.

Had a Negative Therapy Experience?

Many of the clients who see me have previously seen therapists who were unhelpful in resolving this issue, sometimes multiple therapists who were unable to actually help them.

I have decades of experience helping clients who tried to get help for this issue from "generalist" therapists who were unprepared to deal with the specialist matter, as well as clients who saw "specialists" in this who actually were not in fact competent in these sexual misbehavior issues.

I welcome the opportunity to be the actual expert in this, who does in fact bring skill on this matter, and corrects the work of previous clinicians who were not able to make these specific matters better.

Services I Provide

Ages I Work With

  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    I work with functional, often high achieving clients who have been engaging in sexual behavior which can cause them marital, professional, financial personal or legal consequences, and these men wish to not again create the consequences they have already created, or may be at imminent risk of creating for themselves.

    My clients are often surprised that they have done this to themselves, and the fact that they have otherwise sound decision making and judgment causes them to recognize these sexual misbehaviors are in a way, out of character for them.

    I see men who have created consequences by...

    Serial Affairs-Infidelity-Cheating
    "Buying" Prostitutes
    Using "Seeking Arrangements" or similar services
    Smart Phone Sex Hookup Apps outside their marriage
    Paying "Cam Girls"
    Immersing themselves in the "Strip Club" world
    Use of illegal Massage Parlors "Happy Endings"
    Being emotionally financially used by "Sugar Daddy" type arrangements.
    Sexual Compulsivity
    Professional Sexual Misconduct
    Sex Tourism
    Sending Unsolicited Pics
    Illegal Surveillance
    “Sex Addiction”
    Sex Offenses
    Child Porn

    Sorry no insurance accepted.
    $400 per one hour session
    Please phone me directly, you will speak to me, not my staff, at 718-208-6135

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Sex Addiction
  • Sexuality / Sex Therapy

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