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Keys to Choosing a Good Marriage Counselor February 21, 2013 . 35 Comments
Marriage counseling can save your marriage, prepare you for the stress of a baby, help you communicate more effectively, and get you on track for a lifetime of love. But when marriage counseling ... Read More
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Sex, Lies, and Visual Stimulation: Debunking the Myths About Men
February 17, 2013 .
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Ask any armchair psychologist whether men or women are more sexual, and you’ll likely get an absolute proclamation that men are more visual, think about sex more often, and have more ... Read More
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Does Hypnosis Work for Mental Health Issues? February 16, 2013 . 37 Comments
Hypnosis has long been fodder for television shows and stand-up acts, and most people are familiar with hypnotists who claim to be able to make anyone do anything while under hypnosis. ... Read More
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Applying the ‘Love Languages’ to the Parent-Child Relationship
February 15, 2013 .
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When counseling parents and their children, I often refer to the “love languages”—an idea coined by Dr. Gary Chapman, a relationship counselor most well known for the Love Languages ... Read More
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Core Mindfulness in Dialectical Behavior Therapy
February 15, 2013 .
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As discussed in the overview of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), the first of the four primary DBT modules is core mindfulness. Derived largely from Eastern zen philosophies and Western ... Read More
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How Boys’ Learning Styles Differ (and How We Can Support Them)
February 11, 2013 .
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I was convinced that Joe Smith—not his real name, of course—wrote his letter V’s wrong in the second grade, and I thought it helpful to inform him of such. After all, he needed all ... Read More
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How Gendered Language Affects Perceptions February 9, 2013 . 9 Comments
The state of Washington has been working for several years to change the language in its laws to gender-neutral terms. If legislation passes as expected, no longer will there be penmanship, ... Read More
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Grief Mythology: Mourning Can Create Alternate Realities February 5, 2013 . 7 Comments
It is not unusual for someone who experiences a loss to romanticize the person, identity, or object they are grieving. This can occur even when what is lost was not just imperfect, but ... Read More
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Good Grief: Why the DSM-V Is Wrong About Bereavement and Depression February 4, 2013 . 16 Comments
Imagine losing someone very close to you; perhaps your partner dies. How might you feel and behave in the weeks following this death? You might feel a sense of sadness and emptiness so ... Read More
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Perception Fuels the Cycle of Rejection and Hostility in Borderline Personality January 31, 2013 . 14 Comments
Borderline personality (BPD) is characterized by hostile behavior, negative affect, hypersensitivity to others, anger, worry, and fear of rejection or abandonment. These traits can make ... Read More
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When It Comes to Caretaking and Helplessness, Enabling Is Disabling
January 30, 2013 .
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“Self-abandoned, relaxed and effortless, I seemed to have laid me down in the dried-up bed of a great river; I heard a flood loosened in remote mountains, I felt the torrent come; to ... Read More
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Can Anxiety Ruin Friendships? January 30, 2013 . 9 Comments
People who have social anxiety (SAD) may find it difficult to interact with others. They may become overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety when they are in crowds or around people they do ... Read More