Free association is a practice in psychoanalytic therapy. In this practice, a therapist asks a person in therapy to freely share thoughts, words, and anything else that comes to mind. The thoughts need not be coherent. But it may help if they are authentic.
Who Developed Free Association?
Sigmund Freud was in the process of developing free association from 1892 to 1898. He planned on using it as a new method for exploring the unconscious. It would replace hypnosis in this respect. Freud claimed free association gave people in therapy complete freedom to examine their thoughts. This freedom would come, in part, from a lack of prompting or intervention by a therapist. Freud proposed the technique helped prevent three common issues in therapy:
- Transference. The process of transferring feelings one has for one person to a different person.
- Projection. The process of projecting one’s own qualities onto someone else.
- Resistance. The practice of blocking out certain feelings or memories.
How Does Free Association Work?
Contemporary Free Association
Freudian free association is fairly uncommon in therapy these days. Even among neo-Freudians, the technique is not often used. But contemporary mental health practitioners might us a modified version of free association. They may ask someone in therapy to recall all the memories associated with a particular event. A person in therapy could be asked to share the first word that comes to mind after seeing a picture or write down all the thoughts they have at a certain time.
Criticism of Free Association
The main criticism of free association has been that people may overproduce associations. This can be caused by pressure from a therapist. Someone in therapy may struggle to say as many random words and thoughts as possible. Difficulty can occur even if the person is not actually thinking about these topics. Associations may also be random and unrelated to a person’s psyche. For example, someone may start by recalling a memory of their mother. They may remember song lyrics associated with the memory and then begin naming musical artists. This could create the appearance of associations and memories that do not actually exist.
- Free association. (n.d.). Free Association. Retrieved from http://www.victorianweb.org/science/freud/fassociation.html
- Jones, J. (n.d.). About the free associations method. Retrieved from http://www.freudfile.org/psychoanalysis/free_associations.html
- Kring, A. M., Johnson, S. L., Davison, G. C., & Neale, J. M. (2010). Abnormal psychology. Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons.
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I looking to find an online master degree in psychoanalysis.
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GodfreyMay 9th, 2018 at 4:28 AM
I am also looking to continue education in psychology degree
LeenaMay 12th, 2017 at 3:05 PM
Very nicely explained… Thanks
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Turfa TFebruary 27th, 2018 at 11:47 PM
My therapist is treating me using this technique and I thoughts I owe it to people to know what it’s like. Most people think that therapy is sitting across from your therapist and discussing your life and trying to find solutions. By doing free association I have discovered so many things which I never associated with my life.
1. The small incidents that happened in my childhood and things my parents did that hurt my feelings without their knowledge were so detrimental to shaping my thoughts process.
2. I had suicidal idealization from a very young age however, I didn’t even know that passive suicidal thoughts could be thoughts like, “I want to visit Allah or go to heaven.” Picturing myself dying from a dramatic death and my husband or imaginary boyfriend crying and saying how much they love me. Dramatizing visuals of what it would be like if I died and picturing the events that would unfold after. My earliest suicidal ideation was at the age of 9, so far that I know of.
3. My feelings of worthlessness, valueless, not loved, feeling like a failure stems from incidents in childhood such as my grades never being good enough, always hearing how other children were so much better than me, getting scolded and humiliated by my parents over the simplest things but with profound meaning to me. Their thoughts and behavior shaped my thoughts and behavior and I kept associating current events to the past ones and constantly beating myself up.
4. Expressing hidden thoughts and memories that we all suppress because they are inappropriate for us to do so in society was so enlightening and relieving that I feel like I’m rediscovering myself.
The disadvantages are that this process is slow. For many sessions in the beginning, it will feel like you’re not going anywhere, what you’re talking about is not making sense and how is talking about random things really helping. Also in my case I started to regress into a child because some memories once exposed at therapy opened up deep wounds and without a way to cope with them, my personality started splitting into a childlike state. However, it is getting less and less frequent and now I am more knowledgeable about my triggers and what causes my regression. I would highly recommend people to try out this form of therapy.
AstrodeebApril 9th, 2018 at 4:31 AM
Thank you for sharing your very personal journey. I’m writing a case conceptualisation using psychoanalysis as the treatment and your comment has been very helpful.
TurfaMay 11th, 2018 at 8:53 AM
If you have any more questions you can reach out to me. I’ve helped in research for my friend’s paper as well. I’m happy to share my experiences.
HissahOctober 31st, 2018 at 5:10 AM
Salam Turfa, I am glad that you finally got some answers. I am still lost with widely open childhood files looking for closure. I would really appreciate it if you could recommend your therapist hence a few is interested in free association and actually good at it.
All the best
GodfreyMay 9th, 2018 at 4:26 AM
I have similar experiences..
My relations with my parents affected me emotionally..
I been seeing a psychotherapist also. And they seemed to not open up anything with me.. besides the basic things. I suffered greatly.. as I am a loving and caring person I am tend to be in need of sharing do be able to do something..
I research this website on my own.. my doctor never told me to do. But I did.. one thing also she never mentioned a goal for me to have.. for a long long time I been seeing her. Which it really bothered me not having to do anything.. and thinking that people think less of me.. and that what I need is help. Before being able to do anything.. meanwhile I struggle and have started many things.. I always do.. since I am sharing these to people.. and I don’t seem to get support I need. Which is the attention and the response.
One thing I want to do is study psychology.. I m 42 yrs old. Would psychology degree still be worth it
TurfaMay 11th, 2018 at 9:17 AM
This time last year when it had been a month or two since I started going to therapy, I had the same thought, “I want to study psychology” because it was helping me understand myself. However, now I see that it was a sudden motivation I had which lasted temporarily. I’ve also learned something else from the past year of going to therapy. I have these sudden extreme motivational aspirations and goals, but I can never finish any of them. I wondered why. Then I noticed that I had the same difficulty as a child. I could never finish any projects the way I wanted. I was so meticulous and aimed for perfection, that I always missed deadlines. My mom would praise and appreciate how thorough and neat my work would be and I think that drove me to be neater. Later in my teenage years and university, I learned to manage my time and finish projects but the aim was the reward, that grade, that 91 out of 100.
Now the rewards and aims have changed. I need validation, acceptance and appreciation from society. I need to feel I’m making a difference and who else can we get this from except society, and where does society live today? In our phones, in our social media. I’ve started a non profit initiative to raise awareness about mental health and I lose hope and get demotivated so quickly when I see that not many people are seeing my posts or are attending my workshops. Social Media gives us such quick feedback that it is something our minds can not cope with. Our bodies can not process information or produce work as fast as social media/society requires to keep up and our mind gives in to exhaustion and fatigue and gives up. Maybe I give up more quickly than others because of my insecurity and already pre-existing conditions of low self worth. But it is so painful everytime it hits.
I still don’t know if my initiative is an infatuation or an actual goal for me. I guess only time will tell. But one thing I’m trying to do is not focus on the end result, that grade or applause. I’m trying to find enjoyment and fulfillment in the process, which trust me is not easy or fun. Because if I focus on the end result and it doesn’t end up being what I want, I know I’ll come crashing down. Rather if I learn to enjoy the journey, I won’t be disappointed at the destination.
So the question you need to ask yourself is why do you want to study psychology? What intrinsic value will it give you? Is it the knowledge, is it simply to fulfill the need to have a goal, is it something else?
I think counselors and career coaches, focus too much on having a goal. As if those without a goal are simply drifting through life and have no purpose. I had goals, they didn’t work out. I did everything that I was told to do, everything that was right, still it didn’t happen. And I was so focused on this goal that I didn’t stop to enjoy and look around what was happening around me. So I think instead of goal, choose a path and be flexible that it might change. Instead of aiming for that mountain, try to be like flowing water.
Boy, my post sounds like I’ve got it all figured out, trust me I don’t. I’ve been having a veey low week and I was just crying before visiting this site and my husband was consoling me. I’m feeling a little on the upside now which is why I’m able to share my inner feelings.
I hope they are able to help you get some perspective.
ValentinoJune 14th, 2018 at 1:23 PM
Turfa thanks for your post I’m a 44 yr old man with 2 boys the youngest just graduated I have a girlfriend and things are great but I know what you mean by planning and trying to do the right thing. I grew up in an abusive home mostly my stepfather and I tried to do what society would see as a good idea I graduated high school joined the Marines got married and had 2 boys ……Then I started having seizures outta nowhere maybe stress. I was working full time and going to college part time well anyway after the seizures we moved my wife became unfaithful (I had suspected) I wasn’t allowed to work or drive so I used my GI Bill and went to college full time well then my wife left me and my boys and I was having a hard time keeping it together. fast forward and I am still struggling I had to get on Social Security and my only outlet was art but now I’m having trouble even getting motivation. I start projects and don’t finish just like you were saying I have to keep my head up just for the sake of my kids but I am so frustrated My stepfather and ex wife are both dead and with God I have forgiven them as much as I know how to but I still remember the pain is this normal? anyway sorry about the long post I just wanted to say thank you for your post and by sharing my story you know that I am sincere Take Care
Turfa T.June 14th, 2018 at 8:04 PM
Thank you for sharing your story. As much as I don’t wish this on anyone, it feels a little less lonely to know someone else is going through similar feelings that I am. If you want to follow my journey and what I’m up to you can join my Facebook page My Mind My Health. I’m trying to stick to doing this like I mentioned in my last post even if it doesn’t pay and regardless of the backlash. I think I’m able to take one day at a time because of my supportive husband and family. My parents give me space and even though it’s hard for them, they have respected my desire to create distance. Sometimes that space is important. I really need it because I’m not able to control my thoughts. If some one says something or I see something in a party or group of people that triggers some painful memory, I’m unable to push the feeling and anxiety out of my head, even though I’m not able to correlate what the actual memory is. I start having feelings of self doubt, I get very consciousness and feel like everyone is judging me or feel like I’m worthless and not good enough depending on what the trigger is. This feeling of loss on control is very frustrating as I’ve always been in control of my life. I think I’m trying to accept the changes that are happening so that instead of fighting out, I can make peace with it. For me it’s not about forgiveness because even if I say it that yes I’ve forgiven my parents or whatever harm they caused unintentionally, I’ve actually probably not been able to forgive and forget. If I were then I wouldn’t be struggling today would I? I think at some level I might be able to forgive but never forget. And that would have to be good enough. I’ve accepted the fact that what was once my wish to work in a big bad a** job, have a challenging and aspiring career, be some big shot, is not going to happen the way I thought it was. And that’s ok. The last interview that I went to a few weeks ago and I didn’t get through, I was trying so hard not to fall apart because people kept telling me that hang in there, something even better might be around the corner. This last interview was for the transit commission, unionized job and secretly I kept thinking that this was the better thing that everyone is telling me to be patient about. When I didn’t get it, I couldn’t stop the tears streaming down my eyes. I knew I couldn’t go home because I could feel the breakdown coming. So I went to investigate two homeless shelters nearby and I took fresh fruits to one of them. I felt a tiny glow of fulfillment and satisfaction and that helped me boost my mood and remove the thought that I’m worthless. I actually didn’t know it would work, it was something that just came to my mind while I was driving home. I hope you find something that gives you that fulfillment and it’s only yours to keep. It’s ok if you can’t finish projects, it’s ok to be not ok. We’re humans not robots, we are soft not hard, no matter how hard we try to be otherwise.
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