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Like Mother, Like Daughter: Whose Anxiety Is It, Anyway?
January 28, 2016 .
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While new parents frequently seek the “right way” to parent, there is no one rule book. Rather, there are many, often contradictory, guides to parenting. The lack of certainty about ... Read More
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The Psychology Behind a Snow Day
January 27, 2016 .
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I used to have this goal for my life in which I would eventually get to a place where I loved school or my job so much that I didn’t desperately hope for a snow day during the long winter ... Read More
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Raising a Child with a Disability: Opportunity in the Struggle
January 26, 2016 .
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Children with disabilities bring a unique set of challenges, and opportunities, to their families. Depending on the nature of the disability, the challenges can be quite significant. At ... Read More
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Healing Complex Trauma, Part II: The Path to Integration
January 26, 2016 .
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Editor’s note: This article represents the second of two parts. The first part moves from disconnection to autopilot, then from autopilot to self-awareness. “Until you make the unconscious ... Read More
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Are Shame and Fear Keeping You from Living Authentically?
January 25, 2016 .
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One of my favorite writers, fellow social worker Brené Brown, has dedicated years researching vulnerability and all those other seemingly ugly things—such as shame and fear—that get ... Read More
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Why I Don’t Use the Word ‘Forgiveness’ in Trauma Therapy
January 20, 2016 .
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If the title of this article threw you off a bit, it’s OK—I understand why it would. After all, forgiveness is quite the hot topic. Religious leaders, spiritual gurus, and even some ... Read More
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Healing Complex Trauma, Part I: The Path to Self-Awareness
January 19, 2016 .
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Editor’s note: This article represents the first of two parts. The second part, which appears here, moves from awareness to attuned self-compassion, then from compassion to integration. “Do ... Read More
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5 Steps to Getting the Support You Need and Deserve
January 12, 2016 .
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Having a mental health issue can be very isolating. You may feel like no one understands the pain and despair you experience. Because of this, you might keep your condition to yourself, ... Read More
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How Journaling Heals: There’s No ‘Write’ Way to Journal
January 11, 2016 .
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Words have power, so it follows that the process of journaling does, too. It’s a tool I often recommend to the people who see me for therapy. Some situations in which journaling might ... Read More
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3 Tips to Help Your Relationship Survive an Emotional Affair
January 11, 2016 .
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I define an emotional affair as a relationship in which one or both parties are involved in another significant relationship where there is emotional intimacy, sexual chemistry, and romantic ... Read More
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The Importance of Stress Management for People with HIV/AIDS
January 7, 2016 .
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Stress is a state of physical, mental, and emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. It can also be a reaction people experience as they encounter rather ... Read More
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Living in the Moment: What Mindfulness Is and Is Not
January 6, 2016 .
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Let’s stop making mindfulness something other than what it is. Let’s stop making mindfulness the great cure-all. Let’s stop making mindfulness another gimmick to improve ... Read More