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Putting Back Together the Pieces of a Broken Heart
January 27, 2018 .
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One of life’s greatest joys can be connecting to another soul in what may sometimes feel like a lonely world. A good relationship can be a landing on which to fall when the inevitable ... Read More
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Grieve for Good: Honor a Loved One’s Memory by Moving Forward
January 19, 2018 .
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When you are grieving the loss of a loved one, parent, or friend, your grief may take many different forms. It can be debilitating, causing your life to come to a screeching halt while ... Read More
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Learning to Suffer: How Avoiding Your Suffering Can Make It Worse
September 27, 2017 .
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I do not like to suffer, and I do not like for others to suffer. I avoid unnecessary suffering as much as possible, and as a therapist I try to help people to see and stop the unintentional, ... Read More
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Rediscovering Sadness: Taking Time to Feel the Depths of Your Sorrow
September 13, 2017 .
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Feeling sad does not build bridges, nor will it win a war that needs fighting. Dedicating time to dwell on past hurts also rarely brings home a paycheck (unless you’re a therapist). In ... Read More
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Ways to Cope with Grief and Loss after Putting a Pet to Sleep
August 20, 2017 .
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In the United States, there are almost as many pets as there are adult humans. Collectively, Americans keep 60 million dogs, 70 million cats, and a host of other animals as pets. More than ... Read More
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Pet Owner Anxiety: The Challenges Associated with Loving a Pet
August 14, 2017 .
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I recently experienced an increase in my anxiety related to the flood of emotions I have been navigating in dealing with my aging, ailing dog. Only half-jokingly, I told my colleague, “I ... Read More
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Working Through Grief When a Beloved Pet Dies
August 9, 2017 .
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In January, I lost my best and dearest friend—my dog, Paco. Even though he was almost 15 years old, it was one of the most painful experiences of my life. In fact, it was so painful I ... Read More
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Finding New Meaning in Your Living After a Loved One Dies
January 26, 2017 .
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A new year is under way, a time when people are reflecting on their lives and setting goals aimed at moving closer to long-term aspirations. If you recently experienced the death of a loved ... Read More
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Lessons in Loss: What We Can Learn from Grief
October 12, 2016 .
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Dealing with grief and loss is a reality we all must confront at some point. The experience of grief is different for everyone, and it has no timetable. Grieving, however, is a necessary ... Read More
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Can I Grieve If Nobody Died?
March 14, 2016 .
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Anyone who has lost somebody they love will likely agree the death of someone close usually causes a deep and painful grieving process. The people you care about typically validate these ... Read More
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Orphaned in Adulthood: Grieving the Loss of Your Parents
March 4, 2016 .
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The death of a parent is a loss like no other. Our relationships with our parents shape the fiber of who we are. Without them in our lives, a significant piece of our identity may irrevocably ... Read More
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Transformative Grief, Part I: The Art of Bending and Breaking
February 24, 2016 .
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During a recent therapy session, I had a profound exchange with a man about how, months after the tragic loss of his sister, grief is changing him in ways that feel important and meaningful. There ... Read More