Positive Outcomes in Children Whose Mothers Choose Single Parenting

mother and child pretending to fly outsideChildren who grow up in two-parent families and those who grow up with mothers who choose single parenting fare equally well, according to a study presented at the 33rd annual meeting of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology.

In 1981, Jane Mattes, LCSW, founded the Single Mothers by Choice organization. Mattes developed the organization in part to differentiate older, financially stable single mothers from teen mothers, who typically face a range of sociological and economic challenges. Since 1981, the number of single women who choose to have children has grown. According to data from the 2012 U.S. Census, 30% of American households are headed by single parents. Most of those parents are mothers.

No Difference in Outcomes for Children with Single Mothers by Choice

Some politicians and policy analysts have argued that single motherhood endangers children. This study undermines that claim. It included 69 single mothers by choice and 59 mothers who raised their children in heterosexual two-parent families. The mothers’ children were between 1.5 and 6 years old.

Using three empirically validated questionnaires, the study compared children’s well-being and mothers’ support networks between single and two-parent families. In both types of families, there were no significant differences in emotional investment, parental stress, or problem behaviors in children. Additionally, single mothers reported receiving significantly more social support. They were also more likely to report wanting even more social support.

Previous Research on Single Parenting

According to study author Mathilde Brewaeys, policy analysts often base their single parenting research primarily on children of divorce. These children often face an environment of family conflict, making their lives and potential outcomes much different from those of children raised by women who actively choose solo parenting.

Previous research has reached similar conclusions. A 2016 study of 51 single-mother families and 52 dual-parent families found no substantive differences in child adjustment, parent-child relationships, and similar measures of well-being.


  1. Children in single-mother-by-choice families do just as well as those in two-parent families. (2017, July 5). Retrieved from https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/07/170705095332.htm
  2. Golombok, S., Zadeh, S., Imrie, S., Smith, V., & Freeman, T. (2016). Single mothers by choice: Mother-child relationships and children’s psychological adjustment. Journal of Family Psychology, 30(4), 409-418. doi:10.1037/fam0000188

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  • Simone

    July 14th, 2017 at 10:50 AM

    Sure if this is a choice that you consciously made and did not have thrust upon you with little to no say so, then I can see that there would be a lot more confidence in that parenting style as well as more confidence that this is a role that you can take on and do well. I don’t think that there would be very many people who would go into a role like this willingly and not feel some amount of sureness in their decision.

  • teresa

    July 15th, 2017 at 8:24 AM

    I can’t honestly say that it was ever really a dream of mine to be a single parent but there are going to be times when life throws you a little curve ball and when that happens it is time to simply step up to the plate and knock it right out of the park.

  • Collin

    July 17th, 2017 at 2:23 PM

    Those parents who are doing the job of two people, alone, they get far less respect and recognition than what they actually deserve. Kudos to the moms and dads out there doing things on their own while at the same time making the world a better place for their children.

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