My Approach to Helping
Counselling help individual to make better life choices and to move forward in their life. Sometime for some client counselling help them to find that missing puzzle in their life and for some to find their authentic self, inner peace etc.
My own journey in counselling began around mid age in which I was stuck at a crossroads with career burnout and personal issues. Thus, I begin a long journey of self exploration, finding myself and my own healing journey. My personal motto in life and therapy is 'that which does not kill me, makes me stronger,' a popular quote by Nietzsche.
This had further strengthen my belief that each and everyone of us has the strength to heal and discover one's self and find that peace within.
Thus it is my goal as a therapist to help client to discover their inner strength and to move forward in their life with my own life experiences as well as my own experiences as a therapist.
A therapy session with me means a session of support, emphatic, and a non judgmental, therapeutic atmosphere.
You will be supported in your journey of self discovery, handling of problems, issues, challenges, and discover effective life choices, decisions, directions and in doing so you can move forward in your life.
“Out of your vulnerabilities will come strength”
“As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.”
I especially like the part in which Irwin Yalom in The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients, quoted this: on therapist and client.
“Irvin Yalom described the client and therapist as “fellow travelers, both on a journey of discovery together.”
I find it so true after being a therapist for so many years, therapy is both way that both therapist and client grow as a person and how much our client allowed us to be in their world or healing journey for healing and growth to take place.. So lets take the first step in your healing journey.
“The journey of a thousand miles begin with one step.”
More Info About My Practice
I am based within the Cheras, Kuala Lumpur and Petaling Jaya vicinity. For appointment, fees, and services please feel free to contact me. Available on weekday, weekend and public holiday by appointment. Please feel free to enquire at 0123039880.
Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With
Being a mid age woman naturally I am also interested in woman's issues, such as career, life crises and marital issues - be it with working or non working mother, single, or married women.
I am also adept in adolescent issues such as identity search, anger management, stress, relationship issues with parents, social, and sexual misconduct.
I am also trained in multicultural counselling, adept in counselling individual with different cultural background, values, gender and sexuality, etc.
I had completed weekend 1 & weekend 2 training on EMDR (eye movement desensitization reprocessing) which work wonders with distressing memory, trauma management and recommended by WHO for PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder).
I had experiences in handling critical incident stress management counselling for organization and special counselling project for staff affected by right sizing. I am familiar and handle some of my counselling work under EAP (employee assistance programme). Currently i also am affiliated to one of the international school as their visiting counselor.
I am also a certified and registered hypnotherapist under American Board of Hypnotherapy. I had also completed level 1 of sandtray therapy course for usage in adolescent and adults as additional modalities to be used in my practice.
How Psychotherapy Can Help
I believe generally in life there will be moment that we got stuck and things seems to go haywire. What we need is a lift to unstuck us and put us on the correct path again, and this is where counselling or therapy can help.
Counselling also helps us to make better and more effective life choices and moving forward in our life. Most importantly i believed most client seek to find their authentic self, happiness, peace within self, in short a self that is balanced, centred and whole.
Why Going to Therapy Does Not Mean You are Weak or Flawed
Over the years i learned a lot from client and one great thing i learned is that going to therapy does not mean you are weak or flawed. It take a lot of courage, determination and hard work to explore and move forward for client. In fact along the journey we learned to accept self even with some flaws, its ok and that is what make life worth living and we are unique and special in our own way.
I especially like to use the analogy of shattered vase which is part of Richard Tadeshi study on post trauma growth in which those individual who survived traumas and how they rebuild new identity and thrived. The broken, shattered pieces if glass etc is rebuild to something new, stronger and beautiful eg mosaic, etc. Though for some of of us might see yourself as broken vases in the process of healing and this can be liken to the art of rebuilding broken pieces by highlighting the broken pieces as broken pieces itself hold a lot of beautiful history and learning thru the art of Kintsugi, art of mending broken pieces using gold or silver epoxy which is quite similar to counselling journey ie mending or new way at how we see the broken self ie a beautiful self and our broken part highlighted and we wear it as affirmation of what we gone thru and how strong or how far we have grown.