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Kids and Sexuality: It’s Time to Stop Walking on Eggshells
January 13, 2011 .
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When we think of sex therapy, we generally assume this takes place with (and is for) adults or couples. This neglects the importance of helping our children understand sexuality and ... Read More
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Experiencing the Contrast of Life January 7, 2011 . 3 Comments
We are in the midst of January. One way to combat the cabin fever of winter and the shorter daylight hours for those across the northern hemisphere is to turn to creative processes. In ... Read More
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Therapeutic Play: A Tool in Nurturing Attachment
December 6, 2010 .
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During therapeutic play with children, therapists watch, listen, and interact during moments when a child may be giving voice to images, emotion, and story. “Image” implies an object ... Read More
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Part I: Voice Dialogue and Healing the Inner Scapegoat – A Transpersonal Perspective October 29, 2010 . 6 Comments
“For years it lay in an iron box buried so deep inside me that I was never sure just what it was. I knew it carried slippery, combustible things more secret than sex and more dangerous ... Read More
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The LATE Man – Adult Men as “Lost Angry Teens” October 19, 2010 . 19 Comments
Why do so many men sabotage relationships and careers? Current cultural stereotypes of men range from bumbling incompetence to aggressive, macho insensitivity. I’ve worked with men in ... Read More
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Phases of Trauma Healing: Part I, Establishing Safety
October 7, 2010 .
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Experiencing a traumatic life event is horrific and terrifying, but this experience does not have to become your defining moment. It is possible to grow through a traumatic event, or series ... Read More
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The Secret All People Should Know but Few Therapists Share
September 27, 2010 .
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So, you made it through the hardest part– you made the decision to seek therapy. You asked for recommendations, sorted through therapist profiles and websites, maybe even spoke to a few. ... Read More
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After the Affair: Should I Stay or Should I Go? September 19, 2010 . 14 Comments
One of the most arduous decisions you may ever have to make is whether to stay married to someone who has cheated on you. For many people, the decision to not stay in the marriage is pretty ... Read More
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Compulsive Spending: Take the Quiz and Understand the Behavior
August 26, 2010 .
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Have you ever found yourself in a shopping mall, searching, with a slightly pounding heart, for something? Something to wear tonight, tomorrow, or for that next important meeting, or perhaps ... Read More
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More Than Just Eye Movements: The Eight Phases of EMDR
August 9, 2010 .
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He called me, as most new clients do, to inquire about me, my practice, and my approach to helping. What made this call unusual was that I had to educate him about Eye Movement Desensitization ... Read More
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What Is Codependency? An Introduction
July 28, 2010 .
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Codependency is a pattern of behaviors and beliefs learned by children of dysfunctional families while they are growing up. These behaviors and beliefs can be helpful to the family unit, ... Read More
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Six Tips to Make Marriage and Couples Counseling Work July 23, 2010 . 26 Comments
What can you do to improve the chances that couples therapy is worth the time and money you put into it? In other words, what makes marriage counseling work? With the help of a skilled ... Read More