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How to Recognize and Overcome Childhood Emotional Neglect
February 18, 2016 .
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Because it’s mostly silent and invisible, childhood emotional neglect is largely an overlooked phenomenon in psychology. Unlike physical neglect or abuse, where there are signs such as ... Read More
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Inspiring Your Own Joy: The Lessons of Pixar’s ‘Inside Out’
February 18, 2016 .
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Someone I’m working with in therapy recently asked me whether I’ve seen Pixar’s Inside Out. Shortly after, a friend of mine asked the same question, saying, “You would love it. ... Read More
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5 Potent Relational Dynamics at Play in Power Differentials
February 17, 2016 .
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“I feel like I am not listened to and that what I say doesn’t count.” “I feel humiliated for speaking up.” “I’m afraid of losing my job if I am ... Read More
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What to Do When Your Anger Feels Out of Control
February 16, 2016 .
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Healthy anger requires self-awareness, open communication, and the ability to self-soothe. When you can clearly describe your thoughts and feelings, be open to alternative perspectives, ... Read More
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5 Reasons It’s Good to Be Gay and Single
February 12, 2016 .
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Let’s all be real for a moment and face the fact there is often a lot of pressure from friends, family, coworkers, and others for a gay person to be in a relationship, especially now ... Read More
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The Cost of Caring: 10 Ways to Prevent Compassion Fatigue
February 9, 2016 .
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Compassion fatigue can be a serious occupational hazard for those in any kind of helping profession, with a majority of those in the field reporting experiencing at least some degree of ... Read More
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A Healing Response to Pain: Mindfulness and Self-Compassion
February 9, 2016 .
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How do you react when you’re in pain? Do you resist it, ignore it, or push it away? Do you get consumed by it? Would you like to learn a more healing and compassionate way to respond? To ... Read More
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Second Time Around: The Transition from One to Two Children
February 8, 2016 .
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There are few events in life that are as transformative as becoming a parent. So many aspects of your life—your identity, the dynamics with your partner, your sense of control (or lack ... Read More
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‘You’re So Impressionable’ Isn’t the Insult You Think It Is
February 4, 2016 .
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When I was a child, I heard a phrase that stuck in my memory: “You’re so impressionable.” I mulled over this phrase, trying to understand its meaning. One thing that was clear was ... Read More
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7 Ways Anxiety Actually Works to Your Advantage
February 2, 2016 .
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Living with anxiety can be exhausting, frustrating, and painful. Frequent anxiety symptoms may be robbing you of sleep, joy, and/or confidence. However, there is much you can learn and ... Read More
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How Do I Choose a Residential Treatment Center?
February 1, 2016 .
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There are many different types of residential treatment centers (RTCs) that offer therapeutic care for a wide variety of behavioral and mental health issues. Choosing a center that is suited ... Read More
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Stuck in Therapy? These 3 Patterns Could Be Contributing
January 28, 2016 .
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Though I wish it weren’t so, many therapies get “stuck” at some point, leading to premature termination or a less-than-ideal outcome. Here are three of the many possible patterns ... Read More