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Why Falling Out of Love Is Actually Your Brain’s Fault (Not Yours)
October 15, 2025 .
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Key Takeaway: Falling out of love isn’t just emotional, it’s biological. When dopamine fades and stress hormones rise, relationships suffer. But here’s the hopeful ... Read More
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How Therapy Can Ease the Weight of Queer and Trans Trauma: Attachment-Focused EMDR
October 2, 2025 .
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When we talk about attachment wounds in therapy, most people think of early childhood dynamics, moments when caregivers couldn’t show up consistently, or times when love felt conditional. ... Read More
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Why Communication Isn’t Your Biggest Relationship Problem
July 22, 2025 .
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If you’ve tried active listening, “I” statements, and communication workshops but still struggle with your partner, you’re not alone. Many couples discover that ... Read More
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What am I missing? Part 2: Applying Attachment Theory to Treatment and Recovery
April 12, 2024 .
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Addiction is an attachment disorder. Human beings, addicts or not, only know and repeat what was modeled for them during childhood. I like to call ages 0-10 healthy narcissism given ... Read More
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What am I missing? Part 1: Defining the Problem and Attachment Theory
April 11, 2024 .
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“what am I missing; I keep relapsing and don’t know why I have such a difficult time remaining clean and sober?” How we treat addiction in treatment must change. The idea that ... Read More
