Narcissistic Habits: Couples Therapy Treatment Techniques
Presented by Susan Heitler, PhD on 09-19-2014 at 9 a.m. Pacific
Narcissistic habits rank among the top destroyers of relationships of all types. They undermine secure family bonds, long-term friendships, parent-child relationships, and partnerships, whether romantic or professional.
To estimate how frequently narcissistic habits become a treatment focus, I recently assessed narcissism in cases I worked with this past year. Narcissistic habits played a major causal role in the clients’ presenting problems in over 80% of cases. Yet conventional therapeutic wisdom says that narcissism is untreatable. Fortunately, while individual therapy may have minimal impact, couples therapy can quickly reduce narcissistic patterns.
This web conference begins by redefining narcissism as a listening deficit. Treated as insufficiently skilled communication behaviors, narcissistic habits can be addressed via the following comprehensive set of couples therapy interventions:
(1) Past-focused: Depth dive visualizations for exploration of family-of-origin sources of current patterns.
(2) Present-focused: Therapeutic mediation for present-focused resolution of conflicts.
(3) Future-focused: Coaching in the collaborative dialogue, conflict resolution, anger management, and positivity skills that can enable more harmonious relationships in the years ahead.
The web conference concludes with suggestions on how to start and end sessions to maximize treatment impact and how to include individual therapy within an overall couples format.
This web conference is intermediate instructional level and designed to help clinicians:
- Assess the role that deficits in bilateral listening play in narcissistic habits;
- Determine when and how to use the protocol for the depth dive technique, a visualization for rapid access to family-of-origin sources of current difficulties;
- Clarify the importance of exploring underlying concerns in order for couples to switch from fighting to finding win-win solutions to their differences;
- Recognize narcissistic dismissive listening and learn coaching techniques for improving these listening patterns.
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Event Reviews from Members
"An excellent presentation! Designed for the experienced therapist as so few are. Brilliant concepts presented that will be useful extensions of what I already do." - Marilyn Miller, MS, LPC
"I loved her positive attitude around working with narcissistic traits. Thank you!" - Gretchen Burkholder, LMHC
Meet the Presenter
Susan Heitler, PhD
Dr. Susan Heitler, clinical psychologist, believes that most emotional distress stems from poorly handled conflicts between people. Her book for therapists, From Conflict To Resolution, focuses on the conflict-resolution patterns that sustain emotional health versus those that invite depression, anger, anxiety, and escape into addictive behaviors. Her explanations of healthy conflict resolution have brought developments from the world of mediation into the world of psychotherapy. On the basis of this contribution, Dr. Heitler was chosen to demonstrate couples therapy for the master therapist with the video series, Assessment & Treatment of Psychological Disorders. Her video from that series, The Angry Couple, is utilized in couples-therapy training programs around the globe.
In recent years, Dr. Heitler has authored multiple books, audios, and a video for the general public, in addition to conducting a clinical practice specializing in couples therapy. Her podcasts on depression, anxiety, and conflict resolution for couples can be downloaded for free from her website. Her book and workbook for couples, The Power of Two, teaches the foundational communication and conflict-resolution skills for marriage success. Three of Dr. Heitler’s adult children have created an interactive, online marriage education program, PowerOfTwoMarriage.com, that teaches the skills she writes about in these books.
For more information on Dr. Heitler, and her work, please visit therapyhelp.com.
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- This course has been approved by GoodTherapy.org, as a NAADAC Approved Education Provider, for educational credits. NAADAC Provider #135463. GoodTherapy.org is responsible for all aspects of their programming.
- GoodTherapy.org, provider #1352, is approved as a provider for social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) www.aswb.org through the Approved Continuing Education (ACE) Program. GoodTherapy.org maintains responsibility for the program. ASWB Approval Period: 03/30/2016 – 03/30/2019. Social workers should contact their regulatory board to determine course approval for continuing education credits. Social workers participating in this course will receive 2 clinical continuing education clock hours.
- GoodTherapy.org, LLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department's State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed social workers #SW-0395.
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