Barbi Pecenco Kolski, MA, IMFT

Barbi Pecenco Kolski, MA, IMFT

Verified Credentials

Profession(s): Marriage & Family Therapy, Mental Health Counseling, Psychotherapy
License Status:  I'm a registered professional.
Licensing Info:  Supervised by Andrew Pickering, LMFT 42790
License Type:  IMFT
License Number:  IMF #54917

My Approach to Helping

Are poor communication skills damaging your relationships? I can help. I practice relationship counseling in San Diego, CA., specializing in helping clients either individually or with their partner: * Learn non-blaming communication skills * Reduce resentments & appreciate differences * De-escalate hostility in arguments * Create more intimacy and increase connection * Stop blaming themselves and their partner * Learn negotiation skills so BOTH partners can get what they want and need

More Info About My Practice

I subscribe to the philosophy that we generate symptoms in relationships (from fighting and withdrawing to drinking, overeating, domestic violence, etc.) because we cannot get our points across to our partners. That is what a fight is, after all, not being able to get your point across! This "loss of voice" in our relationships is the root of most of our problems. So while you may be struggling with depression, anger, anxiety, or another symptom, I strongly believe that you are most likely also struggling with the connection you have with important people in your life (or a lack of connection) and that is what I focus on.
 

Services I Provide

  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Family Therapy
 

Ages I Work With

  • Teens
  • Adults
 

Languages I Speak

  • English
 

Groups I Work With

  • College-aged young adults Individuals struggling with their relationships Couples, Premarital Counseling, Marriage Counseling
 

Therapy Approaches I Use

  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Gottman Method
  • Humanistic Psychology
  • Imago Relationship Therapy
  • Person Centered / Rogerian
  • Solution Focused Therapy
  • Systems Theory /Therapy
 
 
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Locations & Maps
Office 1: 
2423 Camino Del Rio South Suite #103
San Diego, CA 92108 United States
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Office 2: 
911 Catalina Blvd
San Diego, 92106
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Concerns & Issues I Help With

  • Abandonment and/or Fear of
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Family Problems
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Inadequacy
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Men's Issues
  • Relationships & Marriage
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Love
  • Shame
  • Stress
  • Values Clarification
  • Women's Issues
  • Worry
  • Worthlessness