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Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt, Licensed Psychologist

Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt, Licensed Psychologist

San Antonio, Texas
VerifiedTelehealth Available

Professions: Clinical Psychologist

Languages: English

Telephone: 726-900-7390

My Approach to Therapy

If youre here, youre probably tired of repeating the same patterns, feeling disconnected, or carrying the weight of something that feels harder than it should. You want more clarity, calm, and closeness, but youre not sure how to get there. Thats where I come in. I help individuals and couples slow the noise, understand their emotional world, and create relationships that feel intentional, steady, and genuinely connected. In our work together, youll find a grounded, collaborative space where we look beneath the surfacenot just at arguments or symptoms, but at the deeper needs, fears, and unmet places driving them. Im active in session, offering insight, practical tools, and a clear roadmap so youre not just talking about change but actually experiencing it. My goal is to help you grow without losing yourself, stay connected without abandoning your needs, and build a relationship that feels secure, honest, and resilient. When youre ready for thoughtful, meaningful work, Im here.

My Practice & Services

I'm licensed to practice in Texas and Iowa, and also hold a PsyPact credential, which allows for the practice of online therapy across 43 states. This means we can meet virtually, making therapy easily accessible and more convenient. You can read more on the PsyPact webpage to verify that your state is eligible or email me for more details.

What I Love about Being a Psychotherapist

What I love most about being a psychologist is witnessing those quiet moments when something finally clicks, when a heavy feeling lifts, clarity replaces confusion, or you feel understood instead of overwhelmed. It's a privilege to sit with people in their most vulnerable moments and help them make sense of what hurts, what matters, and what's possible. I genuinely enjoy helping clients feel steadier, clearer, and more connected to themselves and their relationships. Creating a space where you don't have to perform or hide where you can simply be yourself. It's one of the parts of this work I value most.

Important Factors for Choosing a Therapist

Choosing a therapist is deeply personal. You want someone you feel safe with someone warm, direct, and genuinely supportive as you work toward real change. You deserve a space where you can be honest, understood, and challenged in a caring way. My clients often tell me they value my engaged, thoughtful style and the balance of insight, structure, and practical tools I provide. I'm committed to helping you understand yourself, break old patterns, and build more secure, connected relationships. If you're looking for a therapist who offers both compassion and clear, actionable guidance, you're in the right place. Click "Book Now" to schedule your free initial phone consultation and we can talk more about the potential of working together.

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

Adults

Groups I Work With

I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship stress, communication issues, emotional disconnection, trust struggles, conflict patterns, and major life transitions. I specialize in relationship-related issues, couples therapy, premarital work, and support for partners healing after betrayal or feeling stuck in negative cycles. I also help high-achieving professionals and busy couples improve emotional regulation, strengthen intimacy, rebuild connection, and develop healthier relationship skills. My practice includes support for anxiety, attachment wounds, self-esteem challenges, and patterns that impact relationships, such as people-pleasing, withdrawal, conflict avoidance, or feeling “too much” in partnerships. Whether you’re looking to deepen your relationship, regain clarity, or grow as an individual within your relationship, I focus on intentional, evidence-based therapy designed to help you build a secure, resilient, and emotionally engaged connection.

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

Adjusting to Change / Life TransitionsAnxietyAttachment IssuesCodependency / DependencyCommunication ProblemsControl IssuesDepressionEmotional Intelligence

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

CoachingCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness-Based InterventionsPositive Psychology

Industries & Communities

BIPOCEntertainment IndustryFirst Responder/Medical ProfessionalsLGBTQ+Military/Law EnforcementSelf-Employed and Freelance Professionals

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Location & Contact

Primary Office

San Antonio, Texas, 78209

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Second Office

Jacksonville, Florida, 32207

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