My Approach to Helping
You want a closer relationship. You want more fulfilling sex. You are tired of saying the same things over and over again and going through the same relationship dance. It isn't working. You need someone who can feel what you feel and help you to put those feelings into words and actions that improve your relationship and your sex life. This is my specialty. I help clients to be the partner they want to be and to create the relationships they want to have. You deserve to have your relationship needs met and I'm ready to help you create the conditions that can make that happen.
When you contact me today I will get back to you within 1 business day. We'll then have a 15-20 minute phone call to make sure there is a good fit between your needs and my services. On the call I start by answering your questions, then I ask about what is bringing you to therapy and a few screening questions. Then, I'll share what you can expect in a first few sessions. If everything sounds like a good fit, we can discuss my fee and schedule an appointment.
Don't wait any longer to reach out and begin making the changes to end arguments and jump start the passion with your love. Call me today or click the link for my website and fill out my contact form.
More Info About My Practice
In my practice I am invigorated when my clients across a week are racially and sexually diverse. You may find your identity below for more information about my service to people like you.
African-American: Because I have not forgotten where I come from, I know that I have learned from and owe a debt of service to African-American community members so it is an honor for me to serve African-American clients.
Indian/South-Asian: I lived in India for almost a year as a young man and lived with families. This gave me an appreciation of Indian family dynamics and insight in the bicultural experiences 2nd generation Americans of Indian descent.
LGBTQ+: Queer space has always been safe space for me. As a member of the queer community, I love giving that feeling of safety back in the therapy room.
Kink/BDSM: I'm Kink-knowledgeable meaning I'm familiar with a broad array of kink practices and the Safe, Sane, and Consensual (or R.A.C.K. if you prefer) structures that make them safer. I don't squick -out easily and most of the time, the kink doesn't need to be a focus of treatment.
Consensual Nonmonogamy: Whether you are a swinger, open, poly, or a relationship anarchist, I'm prepared. I can work with individuals, dyads, and more-somes in therapy and I can help with jealousy, relationship agreements, broken agreements, and multilayered communication.
My Therapy Focus
I love helping people with relationship and intimacy issues. I work with couples, individuals, and systems to help improve relationship satisfaction by stopping unproductive emotional cycles, improving communication skills, cultivating mutual empathy and compassion, and helping to create the relationship environment where intimacy can bloom.
It can be challenging to talk with a therapist about sexual issues. For that reason, I take any conversation about sexual issues at the client's pace. I maintain a professional atmosphere where we only talk at the level of detail required for me to understand the challenge and to offer suggestions for changes.