Do you find yourself constantly taking care of everyone else’s needs while losing touch with your own? Do you worry more about how others feel than how you feel? Do you find yourself repeating relationship patterns you understand intellectually, but still struggle to change?
Many of the people I work with have spent years adapting to the needs, emotions, or expectations of others. They may be the person who holds everything together, avoids conflict, works hard to keep relationships stable, or questions whether their own needs are valid. Over time, this can lead to feeling exhausted, disconnected, anxious, or unsure of who they are outside of the roles they have carried.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas, and I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating relational trauma, betrayal, family conflict, estrangement, emotionally difficult relationships, attachment wounds, anxiety, depression, grief, and major life transitions. Some clients are healing after betrayal or rebuilding trust in a relationship. Others are working through the impact of emotionally immature family dynamics, childhood emotional neglect, or patterns that continue to affect their relationships today.
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-based, and relational. I believe that many of the struggles people experience today are connected to patterns that developed for a reason. The ways you respond, protect yourself, or relate to others often made sense based on what you experienced, even if those patterns are no longer helping you create the life and relationships you want.
Together, we explore the patterns beneath the problem rather than focusing only on symptoms. We look at how your experiences have shaped your relationship with yourself and others, how you respond to conflict and closeness, and what gets in the way of feeling secure, connected, and fully yourself.
I draw from evidence-based approaches, including attachment-focused therapy, Gottman Method couples therapy, cognitive processing therapy, and other trauma-focused approaches. Therapy is tailored to your individual experiences, goals, and needs, combining research-supported methods with a deeper understanding of your story.
Therapy with me is a place where your experiences get to be understood, often in a way they may not have been before. You do not have to justify your needs, minimize your pain, or carry everything alone. Together, we can work toward understanding yourself more deeply, creating healthier patterns, and building relationships that feel more mutual, secure, and aligned with who you want to become.