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Sandra Paolini, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Sandra Paolini, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Walnut Creek, California
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Professions: Marriage & Family Therapist, Life Coach, Counselor

Languages: English

Telephone: 925-397-4783

My Approach to Therapy

Im a licensed psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience helping adults break free from patterns that dont respond to surface-level solutions. My work integrates modern approaches like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with body-based and subtle-body practices, so were not just talking about the problemwere working with how it lives in your system. I specialize in anxiety, panic, and agoraphobianot just because Ive trained extensively in these areas, but because Ive lived through them myself. I know what its like to feel trapped by your own nervous system, to plan your life around what feels safe, and to wonder if anything will ever really change. I also know what it takes to move through itnot by managing symptoms, but by transforming the patterns that drive them. If youre high-functioning on the outside but stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected underneath, youre not alone. My job is to help you track those patterns in real time and create the space to shift themso you can build the capacity to feel calm, grounded, and clear, even under pressure. I work in a direct, supportive, and insight-driven way. Ill ask real questions. Ill challenge whats not working. And Ill hold a steady, honest space where change becomes possible. This work includes mind, body, and energybecause deep change isnt just about mindset. Its about access: to your own clarity, resilience, and ability to act with intention. If youre ready to do that kind of work, Id be honored to support you.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

I am particularly skilled at helping others with anxiety related disorders; PTSD, Social Anxiety, Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia, OCD and Generalized Anxiety, as well as working with depression, grief and spiritual issues.

Important Factors for Choosing a Therapist

Most people show up at therapy when they've all ready exhausted all the change strategies in their personal tool belts. At this point folks often feel hopeless and willing to try anything. Nonetheless, it's important to choose someone you're aligned with on a number of levels. For almost everyone, it's important to feel heard, understood, validated and accepted. Most folks also enjoy a warm, supportive, non-judgmental environment. These are givens. But beyond this, it's important to choose a therapist with whom you feel aligned on deeper levels. For example: * How does your therapist view the change process? Does (s)he believe it takes years of insight work, or does (s)he focus on solutions, the present, and effective action? * What does your therapist believe are the goals of therapy? * How does your therapist intend to meet your goals? * What's your therapist?s theoretical orientation? Does it make sense to you? * Do you feel comfortable telling your therapist when things aren't working? * Are you feeling more motivated, energized and alive as a result of the work? * Does your therapist continue to upgrade and improve skills, engage in personal work, or have the life experience that aligns with yours? It's important to take your time and choose well. You are the consumer, Take your time, shop around and find a good match because the work is serious and has the potential to change your life at the core.

My View on the Nature of 'Disorders'

I don't believe people are disordered, broken or damaged. Rather, I believe people get stuck in un-resourceful patterns that can create distress in their lives. By addressing the negative or unwanted patterns and discovering how they are held in place and fortified through thoughts and action, you can begin unraveling and re-patterning the way you organize the details of your life. Interesting, the very same brain structures and mind patterns that hold negative patterns in place, can also be used to engage, fortify and hard-wire in other more resourceful, flexible, life-giving patterns. To the brain, patterns are patterns and once you learn how your own internal operating system works, you can use it to make the kind of changes you want

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

AdultsElders

Therapy Services & Specialties

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

AbandonmentAddictions and CompulsionsAdjusting to Change / Life TransitionsAgoraphobiaAngerAnxietyAttachment IssuesBullying

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Anger ManagementBody-Mind PsychotherapyBreathworkCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally Focused TherapyEnergy PsychologyFocusing

Industries & Communities

First Responder/Medical ProfessionalsMilitary/Law EnforcementSelf-Employed and Freelance Professionals

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Location & Contact

Primary Office

325 Cumberland St

Suite B

Walnut Creek, California, 94596

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Second Office

7901 4th Street North

Saint Petersburg, Florida, 33702

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