Dr. Olivia Painter, PsyD, MA

Dr. Olivia Painter, PsyD, MA

Seattle, Washington
VerifiedTelehealth Available

Professions: Psychotherapist, Counselor

Languages: English

Telephone: 986-946-5572

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My Approach to Therapy

You may be coming to therapy feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or stuck in patterns that you can't quite understand or seem to change. Perhaps you've spent a lot of time trying to make sense of your experiences but still find yourself struggling with the effects of past relationships, trauma, or difficult life transitions. You may be looking for more than a place to talk; you want to feel genuinely understood and develop a deeper understanding of yourself. My approach is relational, collaborative, and depth-oriented. I believe our experiences, relationships, and histories shape how we understand ourselves and navigate the world, often in ways we don't fully recognize. Together, we can explore the underlying experiences and patterns contributing to your distress while making space for the parts of yourself that may have felt misunderstood, overlooked, or difficult to express. I strive to create a therapeutic relationship where you feel safe enough to be curious, explore difficult experiences, and move at a pace that feels right for you. I draw from psychodynamic and relational approaches, with specialized training in eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). Depending on your needs and preferences, EMDR can be incorporated into ongoing talk therapy or offered as a standalone treatment. Whether we're exploring longstanding relational patterns, processing traumatic experiences, or navigating questions of identity and belonging, my goal is to help you develop a deeper connection with yourself and create meaningful, lasting change.

My Practice & Services

I offer individual and couples therapy to adolescents and adults through my private practice in Seattle, Washington. I provide in-person sessions in Seattle and telehealth throughout Washington State. My practice is grounded in a depth-oriented, relational understanding of healing. I work with individuals navigating complex trauma, dissociation, anxiety, relationship difficulties, and questions surrounding identity, sexuality, and life transitions. I have a particular interest in working with people whose experiences may not always feel easily understood or captured by a diagnosis, and who are interested in developing a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships. I have specialized training in eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), which I offer both as a standalone treatment and in conjunction with traditional talk therapy. My approach is individualized, and I work collaboratively with clients to determine what therapeutic process best meets their needs. I have over 10 years of clinical experience and strive to offer a thoughtful, engaged, and affirming therapeutic experience. I welcome clients from diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC individuals, and value creating an environment where people feel respected in the complexity of their identities and experiences. I am an out-of-network provider and do not bill insurance directly. I can provide superbills for clients who wish to seek reimbursement through their insurance plans. I offer a complimentary 15-minute consultation for prospective clients to ask questions, learn more about my approach, and determine whether working together feels like a good fit. Limited reduced-fee availability is also offered.

Important Factors for Choosing a Therapist

Finding the right therapist is an important part of the therapeutic process. Beyond a therapist's education, experience, and areas of specialization, I believe it is important to find someone whose approach resonates with you and with whom you feel comfortable being open and vulnerable. You might consider whether their way of understanding emotional difficulties aligns with your own, whether you feel genuinely heard and understood, and whether their approach feels like a good fit for what you are hoping to explore. Therapy is a personal process, and you deserve to work with someone who approaches you with curiosity, respect, and an appreciation for your unique experiences.

Importance of the Client-Therapist Alliance

I believe the therapeutic relationship is central to meaningful therapeutic work. Feeling understood, respected, and accepted creates the foundation for exploring experiences and emotions that may otherwise feel difficult to share. I approach therapy as a collaborative process, where we bring different perspectives and experiences into the room. I also recognize that therapy can involve moments of discomfort, misunderstanding, or differing perspectives. I welcome these conversations as opportunities to deepen understanding, strengthen trust, and explore relational patterns as they emerge within our work together.

My View on the Nature of 'Disorders'

I believe emotional and psychological difficulties are best understood within the context of a person's unique experiences, relationships, history, and environment. While diagnostic language can be useful for communicating experiences and guiding treatment, I don't believe a diagnosis tells the whole story of who someone is or why they are struggling. I take a non-pathologizing, neurodiversity-affirming approach that recognizes the many ways people adapt to their circumstances and make sense of the world. Rather than viewing symptoms as simply something to eliminate, I am interested in understanding what they may communicate about your experiences, needs, and ways of navigating life. My hope is that therapy offers an opportunity to develop greater compassion for yourself and a deeper understanding of the patterns that shape your experiences.

The Duration and Frequency of Therapy

The duration and frequency of therapy depend on your individual needs, goals, and the nature of the work we are doing together. I generally recommend beginning with weekly sessions to establish consistency, build a therapeutic relationship, and allow space for meaningful exploration. Some people benefit from shorter-term, focused work, while others find that longer-term therapy offers the opportunity to explore longstanding patterns and experiences more deeply. We can revisit your goals and the direction of our work over time, making adjustments as your needs evolve.

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

ChildrenTeensAdults

Groups I Work With

Communities served: Individuals, couples, teens, adults, elders (65+), bisexual-allied, gay-allied, immunocompromised people, intersex-allied, lesbian-allied, nonbinary-allied, queer-allied, racial justice-allied, sex worker-allied, and transgender-allied.

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

Academic ConcernsAdjusting to Change / Life TransitionsAnxietyAttachment IssuesChronic Illness / DisabilityDepressionDissociationFamily of Origin Issues

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Culturally Sensitive TherapyDepth TherapyEmotion Focused Couples TherapyEmotion Focused TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)Family Systems TherapyHolistic PsychotherapyNeuropsychology

Industries & Communities

Entertainment IndustryFirst Responder/Medical ProfessionalsEducationSelf-Employed and Freelance ProfessionalsLGBTQ+BIPOC

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