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Monique Valle, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, QTAP

Monique Valle, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, QTAP

Los Alamitos, California
VerifiedTelehealth Available

Professions: Counselor, Marriage & Family Therapist, Psychotherapist

Languages: English

Telephone: 424-396-5777

My Approach to Therapy

As a neurodivergent-affirming and culturally responsive therapist, I support individuals and couples navigating complex intersectional identities. Whether you're in a mixed-neurotype relationship with communication challenges, an LGBTQ+ couple seeking affirming care, or a BIPOC individual experiencing microaggressions, I see beyond mainstream approaches that often miss your unique experience. You deserve care that honors your cultural background, neurotype, gender expression, and authentic relationship patterns. Imagine therapy where your experiences aren't pathologized, your sensory needs are accommodated, and your relationship structure is respected. Healing happens when you're truly seen. Whether rebuilding intimacy after trauma or finding language for your complex experience, I'd be honored to support your journey toward authentic connection.

My Practice & Services

I am a neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, and trauma specialist who focuses on trauma-informed therapy for neurodivergent adults, LGBTQ+ couples, and individuals healing from relational trauma using a decolonial lens. My approach integrates somatic practices, depth work, and nervous system regulation while challenging dominant narratives about "healthy" relationships, creating space for your authentic expression.

My Guiding Ethical Principles

I believe that I have the privilege and duty to be authentic and transparent about my social locations so you can make an informed choice about working with me: -I am a 39 year old cisgender, bisexual woman -Biracial, fourth generation Mexican American and white. I have Spanish, Portuguese, Southern European, Eastern European, and Mexican Indigenous ancestral lineage. -I embrace myself as a deep feeler, an empath, an HSP (highly sensitive person), neurodivergent person, and an INFJ. -Aquarius sun, Cancer rising, Pisces moon I believe that the personal is political and every lived experience encompasses multiple identities impacted by social and cultural contexts. In my practice, I integrate discussions of systemic oppression as these factors cannot be overlooked when understanding individual struggles. My decolonizing practice honors ancestral wisdom and intergenerational patterns while challenging dominant Western therapeutic models that often pathologize cultural differences and neurodivergence. I approach healing through a feminist, anti-oppressive lens. I recognize that individual change within therapy will be impeded if larger systems remain unchanged. My role extends into therapeutic advocacy through continuous learning, providing resources, and challenging -isms. I am a lifelong student: trauma-informed, actively anti-racist, culturally humble, LGBTQ+ affirming, and neurodivergent affirming. Healing happens when you?re no longer asked to fragment yourself.

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

TeensAdults

Groups I Work With

I specialize in working with: -Adolescents & Teens (ages 13–18): teen therapy, adolescent counseling, ADHD therapy, autism spectrum support, anxiety & depression treatment for neurodivergent youth, and highly sensitive teens -Couples & Partners: couples therapy, relationship counseling, communication skills, attachment-based couples work -Queer & LGBTQ+ Individuals & Couples: LGBTQ+ affirming therapy, queer relationship support, minority stress management -Neurodivergent Clients: ADHD, autism-friendly therapy, executive function support -BIPOC Clients & Families: culturally responsive therapy, racial identity exploration, intergenerational trauma work -Trauma Survivors & Nervous-System Regulation: complex trauma healing, somatic therapy, polyvagal-informed treatment

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

Adjusting to Change / Life TransitionsAnxietyAttachment IssuesAutism SpectrumBreakupCommunication ProblemsDepressionEmotional Abuse

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Depth TherapyDepth-Oriented Brief TherapyEmotion Focused Couples TherapyEmotion Focused TherapyEmotionally Focused Couples TherapyEmotionally Focused TherapyFamily Systems TherapyFeminist Therapy

Industries & Communities

BIPOCEducationEntertainment IndustryLGBTQ+Self-Employed and Freelance Professionals

Location & Contact

Primary Office

5212 Katella Ave.

Los Alamitos, California, 90720

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