What's My Approach to Therapy?
Your sensitivity is a gift. Bring the mess — I guarantee you're not too much. You don’t need to know where to start or even be able to find the words. Just show up. I’ll meet you where you are.
I’m Marla, a psychotherapist with a past life as an artist, offering empathy, insight, and authenticity for seekers of self-discovery and transformation. As a San Francisco therapist, I work with highly sensitive, creative, and gifted individuals and couples from a psychodynamic, somatic, and relational perspective.
My work is grounded in depth psychology and intuitive presence. I’ve built my life around transforming pain into insight, so I can help others catalyze anxiety, trauma, addiction recovery, life transitions, and relationship challenges into meaningful change.
In session, I listen with my whole body, attuning to subtle shifts, sensations, and pauses that signal something meaningful — a deeper awareness that opens the way to clarity and healing.
As a therapist, my work is about depth, interiority, the interplay of shadow and light, emotional truth, creative psyche, transformation, intimacy, vulnerability, and complexity.
My best-fit clients are empaths and artists, writers and thinkers, people with creative spirits and analytical minds who often wonder if they are too sensitive, too intelligent, or too intense — haunted by the question: “Am I too much or not enough?”
If you’re ready to do the real work, this is it — raw, sacred, and transformative.
We’ll begin with you — one-on-one. Individual therapy with me is personal, relational, and empathic. Because each of us is also a multiplicity, the work may also evolve to include couples therapy, relationship therapy, or family therapy. As you heal, your relationships will too. It’s a dynamic and beautiful phenomenon to behold when the benefits from personal therapy proliferate through an entire constellation of relationships and family systems.
With advanced training in trauma therapy, addiction treatment, and complex relational dynamics, I can help you disrupt old patterns, instill self-trust, and reclaim the parts of yourself that have been buried or exiled.
Come to release your burdens.
Come to reclaim your life.
As the founder of a boutique therapy practice in the Mission District at the intersection of Potrero Hill, Dogpatch, Mission Bay, and SoMa, I offer highly personalized therapy for privacy-conscious clients, ensuring focused, attuned attention and the utmost discretion. In-person therapy in San Francisco is available alongside online therapy throughout California including the Bay Area, Marin, Palo Alto, and Los Angeles,
Therapy with me is irreverent, bold, and soulful. It's a place where you can finally tell the whole truth.
Let this be your invitation to take up space — in your life, your relationships, and in your healing.
Ready to get started? Reach out for a free consultation or request an appointment through my website. Have questions? Feel free to send me an email or text message to see if this space feels right for you.
My Practice & Services
My therapy style is relational, radically honest, and attuned to nuance and complexity. Sessions are grounded, transformative, and often surprisingly candid: I’m, at times, surprisingly transparent (you’ll always know where you stand) and yet fiercely boundaried, creating a safe space for the unfiltered truth that precedes real growth.
This is not the space for surface solutions or quick fixes. If you’re hoping to smooth things over and get back to “normal,” I’m probably not the right fit. My work is best suited for those who want to dive deep — into identity, polarity, shadow work, and dream interpretation — and who are ready for the intensity (and reward) of long-term therapy.
I’m sex-positive, LGBTQ+ affirming, and comfortable exploring topics many therapists avoid — from sexuality and desire to psychedelic experiences and altered states. If you’re seeking integration after psychedelic work, or wanting to reclaim your relationship with sex, intimacy, or pleasure, this is a space where nothing is off-limits and nothing is “too much.”
With a background in addiction recovery, I bring lived experience and deep empathy to healing from substance use and compulsive patterns. I offer a hybrid model: in-person therapy in San Francisco, online throughout California, and the flexibility to meet changing needs and busy lives.
In couples work, I challenge partners to see and hear each other anew — to move beyond scripts and surface dynamics, toward deeper presence, radical candor, and authentic connection.
Workshops, groups, and retreats may be available in the future — please inquire if interested.
You can call me Marla.
How My Own Struggles Made Me a Better Therapist
My own path has been nonlinear, intuitive, and ultimately, exactly right for the person I am today: artist, addict in long-term recovery, seeker, survivor, healer. It's made me allergic to pretense and uniquely attuned to those in transition or crisis. I know how hard it is to reach out. I know what real transformation costs and what it's worth.
A lifelong learner, I have been privileged to study with thought leaders in the fields of trauma and relationships, including Bessel van der Kolk and Esther Perel through, in addition to extensive clinical experience. But ultimately, the work I offer in therapy isn't from theory. It's from memory.
I work best with trauma, anxiety, addiction, identity exploration, relationship challenges, creative blocks, existential stuckness, and the grief of feeling "too much" or "not enough." My clients are often empaths, artists, and seekers ready for real, sustained change. The main impetus for beginning therapy, at least in my practice, is crisis in one of three areas: your relationship to yourself, your relationship to a loved one, or your relationship to substance use.
It's hard to convey the truth of what I'm about to say in a meaningful, believable way given this format, but I truly hold no judgment for your past, for the places where your shame lives, or for the failures you perceive. One of the best reasons to come to therapy is to begin to see yourself the way your therapist does: with unconditional positive regard and awareness of all of your flaws.
Therapy isn't just about fixing what's wrong. It's about the courage to show up as your whole, authentic self. There's nothing weak about wanting a more honest, meaningful life.