My Approach to Therapy
I am a licensed psychotherapist in private practice with nearly 20 years of clinical experience providing therapy for adults and couples throughout New York State. I work with individuals who often appear highly capable and successful on the outside, yet privately struggle with anxiety and mood difficulties, emotional overwhelm, trauma, relationship difficulties, burnout, chronic stress, or a persistent sense of feeling stuck, despite insight and previous therapy.
Many of the people I work with are accustomed to functioning at a high level in their personal or professional lives. They may understand their patterns intellectually, yet continue to experience the same emotional reactions, relationship dynamics, or internal struggles that seem resistant to change. Therapy can become most valuable when understanding alone is no longer enough.
My approach is integrative, trauma-informed, and grounded in current neuroscience, recognizing that emotional difficulties are often held not only in thoughts, but also in the nervous system, relationships, and lived experience.
Rather than applying a single method to every person, treatment is individualized and may draw from psychodynamic therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and nervous system regulation strategies.
I believe meaningful therapy extends beyond symptom reduction. While many people seek relief from anxiety, depression, trauma symptoms, or relationship conflict, my goal is to help create deeper and more enduring change, greater self-understanding, improved relationships, increased emotional resilience, and a stronger connection to yourself.
I also work with couples seeking relationship therapy around communication difficulties, recurring conflict, betrayal and trust concerns, life transitions, and relational patterns that create distance or disconnection.
I offer online therapy throughout New York State and provide both short-term focused work and longer-term psychotherapy, depending on your needs. Beginning therapy can feel vulnerable, but it can also be the start of meaningful and lasting change.
My Practice & Services
Beginning therapy often happens at a point where something no longer feels sustainable. You may appear capable, accomplished, and high-functioning in many areas of life, yet privately feel anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected, stuck in repeating patterns, or uncertain about why insight alone has not led to meaningful change. You may have already spent years reflecting, reading, or participating in previous therapy and still find yourself experiencing the same emotional reactions, relationship dynamics, or internal struggles.
I provide psychotherapy for adults and couples throughout New York State, and I work with individuals navigating anxiety, trauma, depression, chronic stress, burnout, life transitions, relationship difficulties, emotional reactivity, and longstanding patterns that continue to interfere with well-being. Many clients seek therapy not only because they want relief from symptoms, but because they want a deeper understanding of themselves and lasting change.
My approach is integrative, trauma-informed, and grounded in neuroscience. I believe emotional difficulties are not held solely in thoughts or conscious awareness. Experiences often live within the nervous system, body, relationships, and emotional patterns that develop over time. Treatment is individualized rather than structured around a single method or protocol. Depending on your needs, our work may integrate psychodynamic therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness practices, and nervous system regulation strategies. The goal is not simply learning more coping skills or managing symptoms, but helping create changes that feel meaningful, embodied, and sustainable. I also work with couples seeking support with communication challenges, recurring conflict, emotional disconnection, trust concerns, life transitions, and relational patterns that continue to create distance or distress.
I offer high-quality private online therapy throughout New York State, and I provide both shorter-term focused treatment and longer-term psychotherapy based on your goals and needs. Therapy is a collaborative process and a space to understand yourself more deeply, strengthen relationships, and create meaningful change that extends beyond the therapy room.
Important Factors for Choosing a Therapist
Finding a therapist is often less about locating the perfect modality and more about finding a person and an approach that feel like a good fit for you. Research consistently suggests that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is one of the strongest predictors of meaningful change.
When considering a therapist, it can be helpful to ask:
Do I feel understood and genuinely heard?
Does this therapist have experience with the concerns I am seeking help for?
Does their approach resonate with me?
Do I feel comfortable enough to be open, even if vulnerability feels difficult?
Am I looking primarily for practical tools, deeper insight, trauma-focused work, or some combination of these?
Does this feel like someone I could build trust with over time?
Many people also assume they need to know exactly what is wrong before beginning therapy. Often this is not the case. Sometimes people seek support because they feel overwhelmed, disconnected, stuck in recurring patterns, dissatisfied in relationships, or simply aware that something no longer feels sustainable.
Therapy is a highly personal process, and feeling a sense of connection, trust, and comfort with your therapist can matter just as much as any specific treatment approach.