David S. Wilde, LCSW, JD

My approach is practical, engaged, and collaborative. I don't just it back an nod - I provide tools and assign homework for in-between sessions because the classroom is not only the therapy space but the space and time in-between sessions. For change and healing, traditional talk therapy alone so often misses the mark. In fact it sometimes keep people "stuck" in their problems. and addicted to the therapy itself. Without tools, the psychodynamic method simply does not work for many. I teach practical skills and techniques employing "hands-on" approaches.

I am highly sensitive to, and work particularly with interpersonal issues - in our marriages, with our kids, and with our families of origin. In testimonials I’ve been described as “a very down-to-earth guy who puts you at ease almost instantly” as well as “an old soul” with “laser sharp perceptions.” Our primarily relationships will bring up all of our issues. Sometimes relationship challenges cover up deeper issues — from self-esteem issues to anxiety, depression, anger challenges, trauma and ADHD. As children, our coping mechanisms start out being highly adaptive to both genetics and early trauma. Our nervous systems develop accordingly. However, as we become adults, we have the ability to toggle between our inner childlike reactivity and an adult perspective on growth and health. We can learn to create new neuronal connections via new ways of thinking and thus feeling - as we grow into our healthiest selves. I provide a blend of therapy and coaching with a spiritual or energetic perspective. Therapy is about healing; life coaching is about change. I incorporate the two in the sacred space that I provide my clients.