Caitlin "Casey" Binstadt, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 50495

Caitlin "Casey" Binstadt, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 50495

Larkspur, California
VerifiedTelehealth Available

Professions: Marriage & Family Therapist, Psychotherapist, Counselor

Languages: English, Spanish

Telephone: 435-375-3529

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My Approach to Therapy

Changes in family dynamics are tough. Maybe you’re lying awake, replaying another hard interaction with your co-parent. Maybe their name popping up on your phone gives you that twist in your stomach. Or maybe you’re not even sure yet whether to stay or go, and that not-knowing is exhausting all on its own. Or maybe you’re blending two households into one, and it doesn’t feel like one safe place for your kids quite yet. Either way, you don’t have to figure this out alone. I’m Casey Binstadt, LMFT, with over 10 years of experience. I help parents and couples find a healthy way forward through these changes, with kids at the center. That might mean separated and divorcing parents building a working co-parenting relationship. It might mean a couple deciding whether to stay together. Or it might mean a couple and stepparents finding their footing as a blended family. My approach is warm, practical, and direct. I don’t take sides. My job is to stay neutral and help you lower the temperature — in your own head, and with your co-parent. We start with where things actually stand right now, not where you think they should be. From there, we build real tools. How to respond to a hard text without it escalating. How to keep your kids out of the middle. How to build a parenting plan that works like a road map, not a rulebook you get graded on. You’re not failing. You’re doing the hard things and showing up for your kids, even while it hurts. If this sounds familiar, I’d love to talk — book a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit.

My Practice & Services

My practice Coparenting with Peace is just me, Casey Binstadt, LMFT. I see clients from my office in Larkspur, CA, and by telehealth across California, so distance or a tricky schedule doesn’t have to get in the way. I offer coparenting counseling, discernment counseling, couples counseling, and blended family counseling. Many clients start with a free, no-pressure consultation to see if we’re a good fit before booking a first session. For coparenting counseling, I often recommend starting with a six-session bundle. It’s enough time to build real structure — communication, decision-making, and clear, agreed-upon boundaries — without an open-ended commitment. I also write regularly for the Coparenting With Peace blog, with practical, educational guides on parenting plans, custody schedules, nesting, discernment counseling, and telling your kids about a divorce. It’s free to read any time, whether or not we end up working together.

Important Factors for Choosing a Therapist

Fit matters more than almost anything else. A therapist can have every credential in the world. But if you don’t feel safe being honest with them, the work won’t go anywhere. Pay attention to how you feel in a consultation call or first session. Do you feel judged, rushed, or like you’re performing for them? Or do you feel like you can actually say the real thing? It’s also worth asking about a therapist’s experience with what you’re bringing in. Someone who specializes in the relationship or life transition you’re facing will usually get you to the heart of things faster. Someone working outside their focus may take longer to get there. Logistics matter too, even when they feel less important in the moment. Session frequency, cost, location or telehealth options, and scheduling flexibility all affect whether therapy is sustainable for you long-term — not just helpful for a few sessions. And finally, trust your gut. If something feels off after giving it a fair try, it’s okay to look elsewhere. The right therapist should feel like someone you can be honest with. And someone who isn’t afraid to be honest with you, too.

How My Own Struggles Made Me a Better Therapist

I’m not just teaching coparenting from a textbook. I’ve been living it for over six years, coparenting peacefully with my own children’s father across two homes. I know what that actually looks like, day to day — not just the big decisions, but the small stuff that trips families up. Volleyball kneepads left at the wrong house the night before a tournament. Figuring out how two households handle sibling squabbles and family rules the same way, so the rules don’t change just because the address did. The daily texts, back and forth, coordinating who’s driving where and whose weekend it actually is. None of that is theoretical to me. I’ve lived the logistics, and I’ve lived the feelings underneath them too. That’s part of why I don’t just hand parents a parenting plan and wish them luck. I help you build a coparenting relationship that can actually hold up to real life — because I’m building one of my own.

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Age Groups I Work With

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Groups I Work With

Coparenting With Peace provides coparenting counseling, discernment counseling, and blended family therapy in Marin County, California, with online sessions available throughout the state, including the San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, San Diego, and Sacramento. We work with separated and divorced parents navigating coparenting conflict, high-conflict divorce, custody arrangements, and parenting plan creation. We also support couples in discernment counseling who are deciding whether to stay together or separate, and blended families working through the stress of children acting out, shifting roles, and building trust across a newly formed family. Many clients are also processing the anxiety and grief that come with divorce and separation. Our work takes an attachment-based approach, and Casey Binstadt, LMFT, is Mosten Mediation trained, bringing a structured, informed lens to co-parenting and custody conversations alongside clinical support. Coparenting With Peace also offers reduced-fee therapy through our associate therapists, who work under direct clinical supervision, so every family receives thoughtful, well-supported care. Whether you are searching for a coparenting counselor in Marin County, a divorce therapist in the Bay Area, or discernment counseling in California, we offer a free consultation and would love to connect.

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

Adjusting to Change / Life TransitionsAngerAnxietyAttachment IssuesBlended Family IssuesBreakupChild and/or Adolescent IssuesCodependency / Dependency

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Attachment-Based Family Therapy (ABFT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Internal Family Systems (IFS)Psychodynamic

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