Alexandra Cohen, Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Alexandra Cohen, Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Needham, Massachusetts
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Professions: Mental Health Counselor

Languages: English

Telephone: 814-230-7957

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My Approach to Therapy

Change can be frustrating when you understand why something keeps happening but still find yourself caught in the same patterns. Maybe you overthink, question yourself, struggle with boundaries, people-please, procrastinate, or feel emotionally overwhelmed. You may look capable and put-together on the outside while privately feeling anxious, exhausted, or frustrated that things seem harder than they should. I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, difficult relationships, and the lasting impact of childhood experiences and family dynamics. Sometimes the issue bringing you to therapy is clear. Other times, you may simply know that something isn’t working and want to better understand why you feel, react, or relate to others the way you do. I believe therapy should feel like a real conversation. I’m an active therapist, which means I won’t simply sit back and listen. I’ll ask questions, offer feedback, help you look at things from different perspectives, and sometimes challenge you when it may be helpful. My style is conversational, direct, collaborative, and grounded in curiosity and honesty. Our work will balance deeper exploration with practical problem-solving. We might look at how earlier experiences continue to influence your relationships, self-esteem, emotional reactions, or expectations of yourself while also working on what is happening in your life right now. For clients with ADHD, this can also include executive functioning, procrastination, emotional regulation, rejection sensitivity, and the exhaustion that can come from constantly trying to keep up. I draw from evidence-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and trauma-informed care, adapting our work based on what you need rather than following a one-size-fits-all approach. The goal isn’t simply to understand yourself better. It’s to use that understanding to respond differently, make choices that feel more intentional, and create changes you can actually feel in your relationships and everyday life.

My Practice & Services

My practice is fully virtual, and I provide individual therapy for adults throughout Massachusetts. Telehealth offers the flexibility to meet from a private space that works for you without adding travel time to an already busy schedule. My approach is active, conversational, and collaborative. Sessions are a place to talk openly about what’s going on, make connections between past experiences and what’s happening now, and work toward changes that make a difference outside of therapy. Depending on what you need, our work may involve deeper exploration, practical strategies, or a combination of both. Finding the right therapist matters. I offer a brief consultation before scheduling an intake so we can talk about what brings you to therapy, what you’re looking for, and whether working together feels like a good fit.

How Psychotherapy Can Help

Psychotherapy can help you better understand what you’re feeling, why certain situations affect you the way they do, and what may be keeping you stuck. It creates space to look at things differently, work through experiences that continue to affect you, and develop new ways of responding to challenges in your life. Our work can help you manage anxiety and emotional overwhelm, strengthen relationships and boundaries, quiet self-criticism, improve coping and problem-solving, and feel more confident in your decisions. For those with ADHD, therapy can also help with executive functioning, procrastination, emotional regulation, and finding strategies that actually work for you. Therapy isn’t about becoming a different person or having everything figured out. It’s about understanding yourself more clearly and using that understanding to make changes that improve how you feel, relate to others, and move through everyday life.

On the Fence About Going to Therapy?

It’s okay to be unsure about therapy. You may wonder whether what you’re dealing with is “enough” to need support, whether talking about it will actually help, or whether you’ll know what to say once you’re there. You don’t need to be in crisis or have a clear idea of what you want to work on before reaching out. Sometimes starting with a conversation is enough. I offer a brief consultation where you can tell me a little about what’s going on, ask questions, and get a sense of what working together might be like. There’s no pressure to have everything figured out. We can start with where you are and figure out the rest together.

Had a Negative Therapy Experience?

A negative experience with therapy can make the idea of trying again difficult. Maybe you didn’t feel understood, the approach wasn’t helpful, or you simply didn’t connect with your therapist. Whatever happened, it’s reasonable to be more cautious about who you choose to work with next. I believe a good therapeutic relationship should feel collaborative and like a real conversation. I’ll ask questions, offer feedback, listen to what is and isn’t working for you, and encourage you to be honest about what you need from therapy. You have a voice in the process. A previous experience doesn’t have to determine what therapy will be like this time. We can talk about what didn’t work before, what you’re looking for now, and whether my approach feels like a better fit.

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

Adults

Groups I Work With

I work with adults, including college students and young adults, navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, difficult relationships, and the lasting impact of childhood experiences and complicated family dynamics. Many of my clients are thoughtful and self-aware but still find themselves struggling with overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, self-doubt, rejection sensitivity, or feeling responsible for others. I also work with adults who struggle with executive functioning, procrastination, motivation, emotional regulation, boundaries, and relationship patterns. Some appear capable and put-together on the outside while privately feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or exhausted from working so hard to keep everything together. My work is especially suited for people who want to better understand how earlier experiences may be affecting their relationships, self-esteem, emotions, and choices today while also learning ways to respond differently moving forward.

Therapy Services & Specialties

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

AnxietyDepressionLearning DifficultiesPosttraumatic Stress / TraumaRejectionSelf-CompassionSelf-CriticismShame

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational Interviewing Narrative TherapySolution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

Location & Contact