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Adi Elinoff, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Candidate

Adi Elinoff, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Candidate

Westminster, Colorado
Verified

Professions: Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Counselor

Languages: English

Telephone: 531-535-4767

My Approach to Therapy

Finding a therapist is a pain in the arse. Therapy can be uncomfortable. But staying stuck in the same fights, the same resentment, and the sex not even being good enough to make up for it? That sounds worse, so let’s go ahead and do something about it. I work with couples for sex therapy, navigating betrayal, porn conflict, mismatched desire, painful or avoidant intimacy, and open relationship or poly agreements that got bent until they snapped. This is a sex-positive, LGBTQIA+-affirming, kink-aware space focused on clarity, repair, and agreements that actually hold, so you can feel safer with each other and in your own body. I integrate acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), emotionally focused therapy (EFT), and the Gottman Method. We map your cycle, build emotional safety, and practice concrete tools for conflict repair, boundaries, consent, and rebuilding trust. Therapy isn’t endless processing here. We measure progress by what changes between sessions: steady conversations, clearer agreements, and a sex life that fits your relationship. My style is active, direct, and structured. I'll slow things down, call you out on your shit, and keep you on track when talks turn into interrogation, defensiveness, or shutdown. Sessions balance emotional depth with practical change, so you leave with language and next steps, not just insight. Expect honesty, warmth, and accountability, without judgement.

My Practice & Services

My practice is focused on helping people work through relationship challenges with honesty, structure, and clear direction. I primarily offer couples therapy, relationship-focused therapy, and sex therapy, including work around infidelity, trust repair, boundary breaches, and communication breakdowns. I also work with individuals when the focus is directly connected to relationship or intimacy concerns. I run a small, focused practice located in Westminster, Colorado, rather than a large group model. This allows me to be intentional about the work I take on and to provide therapy that is active, engaged, and responsive rather than passive or open-ended. Sessions are collaborative but directive, with an emphasis on helping clients understand what is happening in their relationship and what needs to change for real repair to occur. I work with monogamous, non-monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, and I aim to provide a space that is affirming, nonjudgmental, and grounded in respect for different identities and relationship structures. I also offer consultation, psychoeducation, and structured exercises when helpful and may recommend resources or between-session practices to support progress. At this time, my practice is focused on individual and couples work rather than groups or workshops. Therapy is offered in person and via telehealth, depending on client needs and availability.

Expertise & Specialties

Age Groups I Work With

Adults

Groups I Work With

I work with couples and partners who feel stuck. That includes infidelity and betrayal, emotional or sexual affairs, secrecy, broken agreements, and major trust ruptures. Most of the couples I see are caught in repeating cycles of conflict, withdrawal, defensiveness, or emotional distance. Something keeps happening between you, and no matter how many times you talk about it, it does not actually shift. I also work with couples navigating sex and intimacy concerns. Desire discrepancies. Avoidance. Dissatisfaction. Shame. The conversations that feel too charged or too awkward to even start. Sex is rarely just about sex. It is usually about safety, resentment, attachment, or unspoken expectations. We slow that down and make it workable. For couples and individuals seeking sex therapy, that can include exploring sexual values, clarifying boundaries, repairing after sexual betrayal, or addressing pornography-related conflict. The goal is not to force anything. It is to create clarity and choice where things currently feel reactive or shut down. I provide therapy for ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamorous partnerships. That includes boundary repair, renegotiating agreements, rebuilding trust, and working through jealousy or insecurity without pathologizing the relationship structure itself. I am LGBTQIA+-affirming, kink-informed, and comfortable working with diverse identities and relational configurations. Most of the adults who come to me are looking for relationship-focused therapy. They want structured support for infidelity recovery, trust repair, couples sex therapy, or high-conflict dynamics that feel exhausting. I offer sessions in person and via telehealth. If your relationship feels strained, distant, or stuck in patterns you cannot untangle on your own, that is the work we do.

Concerns & Challenges Addressed

Communication ProblemsDivorce / Divorce AdjustmentFamily ProblemsInfidelity / Affair RecoveryPolyamory / Nonmonogamous RelationshipsPre-Marital CounselingRelationships and MarriageSexuality / Sex Therapy

Therapeutic Approaches & Evidence-Based Methods

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Emotion Focused Couples TherapyGottman MethodPsychodynamic

Industries & Communities

BIPOCEducationEntertainment IndustryFirst Responder/Medical ProfessionalsLGBTQ+Military/Law EnforcementProfessional SportsSelf-Employed and Freelance Professionals

Location & Contact

Primary Office

8120 Sheridan Blvd

Suite C-100

Westminster, Colorado, 80003

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