Kellyjo Coney-Khan

Masters Level and Attachment Focused-EMDR Trained

Kellyjo Coney-Khan

Masters Level and Attachment Focused-EMDR Trained

Telehealth Available
Professions: Mental Health Counselor, Psychotherapist, Licensed Professional Counselor
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: APACS Level 4 - A211_8
Secondary Credential: SAC - D0342
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

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Sea Breeze Estate, Singapore 489186 - Singapore

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My Approach to Helping

I work from a strength-based approach utilising principles from Attachment-Focused EMDR, Narrative Therapy, SFBT, NLP, DBT, Integrative Life Planning, and Satir\'s Transformational Systemic Therapy. It all depends on what you would like to work on and we can decide together which approach and techniques work best for your desired outcome.

For me, you as my client always comes first, and your healing is of the utmost importance. I have worked with men, women, teenagers and couples to help ease their emotional stressors. I have experience with locals, expatriates and ESL Clients. Your safety is my priority.

Anonymous Client Testimonials:

\"You have really changed my outlook on life. You have helped me so much. You are an amazing psychotherapist. I was sceptical at first but you have opened my mind to a whole new reality. One that is much better. It was a challenge at first but I really needed to try something. And thanks to you it worked. I\'ve never felt better in my life.” (Anonymous Male client)

“I honestly am amazed at how much I improved from the beginning till now… I took a step I was too afraid to take and I am actually very proud of where I am and its all thanks to you, you really helped me to put things into perspective and showed me that not everything is in my control and I do not need to bare the blame for things others do, these sessions have taught me how to love myself and become someone I am actually going to be proud of some day. So thank you very much.” (Anonymous Female Client)

The feedback I have received from clients about the magical transformative modality I use is that they get a release of emotional and physical symptoms and are able to unblock the beliefs that are holding them back in life, whether they are to do with relationships, past memories, fears, phobias, anger, grief, loneliness, spirituality, religion, finances and money or family struggles. I have over 20 years experience, doing what I like to call \"making life magical\" for teens, men, women and couples. I utilise a blend of scientifically evidenced-based treatment methods, but Attachment-Focused EMDR is my primary training modality and I have found this extremely effective for regulating a persons nervous system in response to stress.

More Info About My Practice

At tidylodge we offer face-to-face psychotherapy and coaching in a private and secluded location in the East of Singapore, as well as online via video. We provide a range of services catered specifically to your needs, guaranteed to bring you a level of comfort, hope and transformation you desire. Our services include adult and adolescent mental health and well-being services and even relationship magic for couples. Our Chief Enchantment Officer and Head Psychotherapist specialises in a magical blend of Attachment-Focused EMDR, Narrative Therapy, DBT, Schema, NLP, SFBT, Psychosynthesis, and Integrative Life Planning.

Science is magic and a positive strength-based approach to psychotherapy and coaching is nothing short of \"real magic\". We can see evidence all around us, and although that magic might be explained by something ordinary and sensible, let\'s not ruin the fun. Others can fill their day with coincidences, let\'s fill our with \"goodness gracious me\", that\'s unbelievable! There is absolute magic in the transformation a person feels when they are appreciated, shown their worth, validated, shown a mirror that highlights their inner awesomeness, helped to make sense of their lives, to remove obstacles that are blocking them and find solutions to complicated issues and acceptance in situations that can\'t be solved. We all have problems, there is no shame in asking for help, especially when what you\'re asking for is a touch of magic in your life.

Known for balance, aha moments and clarity around matters pertaining to life struggles and identity, our services are strength-based positive psychology, with nothing but results!

The Duration and Frequency of Therapy

It really depends on each individual, it can take four weeks to experience results, sometimes three months and in more extreme cases six months to a year. However, it can even take one session with attachment-focused EMDR to notice a shift in beliefs that were once holding you back. A commitment and therapeutic alliance is crucial in determining various factors pertaining to therapy and how long your individual journey may take.

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Services I Provide

  • Consultation
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Intervention
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Teens
  • Adults


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Adults, Men and Women (18-50+) Teenagers, Couples, Expats and Locals

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Abandonment
  • Abortion / Post Abortion Issues
  • Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Agoraphobia
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Behaviorism
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Creative Blocks
  • Dissociation
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Emptiness
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Fear
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Habits
  • Identity Issues
  • Inadequacy
  • Individuation
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Irritability
  • Jealousy
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Midlife Crisis / Midlife Transition
  • Mood Swings / Mood Disturbance
  • Obsessions and Compulsions (OCD)
  • Panic
  • Perfectionism
  • Phobias
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Psychogenic Nonepileptic Seizures
  • Rejection
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Love
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety / Phobia
  • Stress
  • Trust Issues
  • Values Clarification
  • Workplace Issues
  • Worthlessness
  • Young Adult Issues

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Positive Psychology
  • Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

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