John Goll


John Goll


Telehealth Available
Professions: Counselor, Marriage & Family Therapist, Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Marriage and Family Therapist - 166.001069
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Fees: $150 per hour


Saint Charles, Illinois 60174

My Approach to Helping

I help people understand the patterns of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that keep them from the success and satisfaction that they want in their relationships, their careers and their lives. I help them to make the choices and changes that make real differences in their lives.

More Info About My Practice

My on-line practice allows you to connect with me from the comfort and convenience of your home, office or other secure locations. The telehealth platform that I use assures HIPAA compliant privacy and security for our interactions.

On-line scheduling is available 247 through my website. The system will show you all available times so you can pick what works best for you, with out having to deal with messages, delays, missed calls or phone tag.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

I specialize in helping couples in crisis to step back from the brink of divorce or break-up and find ways to re-connect, heal old wounds and rebuild a deep and trusting bond - often stronger and more reliable than ever before.

Theoretical Influences that Guide My Work

I believe that humans were build to be in relationships. Science now shows clearly that with the foundation of a strong and resilient relationship we are healthier and we live longer and better. Conversely, a weak, mistrusting, disconnected or absent relationship undermines every other aspect of our lives. As a beloved mentor said many years ago: "It is all about the relationships."

Why Going to Therapy Does Not Mean You are Weak or Flawed

I most often find this unfortunate assumption with the many men that I work with. The mistaken notion that seeking help is a sign of weakness is, I believe, the "cancer that eats men." This concept of having to be strong and not show any signs of struggle is a recent modern corruption of the ideal of individualism. In contrast, ancient traditional attitudes held that none of us were ever meant to face the problems and challenges of life alone. In fact, to seek counsel and support was a sign of wisdom and the strength of internal courage to reach out for assistance and mentoring.

Services I Provide

  • Coaching
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Premarital Counseling
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Couples in crisis due to infidelity, disconnection, mistrust; or caught in repeating cycles of negative interactions.
    Men's issues in relationships, fathering, anger management, sense of self and life purpose.

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Blended Family Issues
  • Career Choice
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Control Issues
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emptiness
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Family Problems
  • Fear
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Habits
  • Helplessness / Victimhood
  • Identity Issues
  • Individuation
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Isolation
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Midlife Crisis / Midlife Transition
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Religious Issues
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Shame
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Trust Issues
  • Workplace Issues
  • Worthlessness

Types of Therapy

  • Anger Management
  • Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Humanistic Psychology (humanism)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Object Relations
  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Relational Psychotherapy
  • Systems Theory /Therapy

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