John Boesky

MFT, Dharma Life Coach, Sports Performance Consultant

John Boesky

MFT, Dharma Life Coach, Sports Performance Consultant

Telehealth Available
Professions: Marriage & Family Therapist, Life Coach, Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: MFT - 39666
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Fees: $140.00 per session. I offer a sliding scale in a select number or cases.
Free Initial Consultation
Evening Availability


5100 Marlborough Dr.
San Diego, California 92116

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My Approach to Helping

I work collaboratively with my clients to ensure that they get out of our therapy or coaching precisely what they came in to see me for !! My intention and deepest wish is to support my client’s personal and interpersonal growth and transformation in ways that are tailor-made for them, so that they realize more and more of their full potential in order to live their best lives. I offer my clients my engaged presence, insights, intuition, empathy, compassion, and all the knowledge and wisdom that I've gleaned from trainings, mentors, books, my meditation practice, and from the sum total of my life experiences. I LOVE my profession, as it is an honor and a privilege to support, guide, and mentor people who share my passion for growth and self-actualization.

More Info About My Practice

I facilitate personal growth work on behalf of motivated individuals, couples, families, twins, athletes, creatives, entrepreneurs, and business owners. In addition to being an MFT, Master NLP Practitioner, Certified Hypnotherapist, and Dharma life Coach, I'm also a Sports Performance Consultant, and I've worked with countless high school, collegiate, and professional athletes to help them perform up to their highest potential. I also facilitate groups. As of right now, for example, I'm facilitating a Men's group for men who wish to support each other in healing, growing, developing even greater emotional intelligence, and ultimately, being the best men they can possibly be. I've been facilitating this particular group for over 12 years.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

I'm particularly skilled at teaching effective communication skills, revitalizing relationships, teaching empathetic listening skills, helping clients resolve Family of Origin issues, resolving trauma, helping clients adopt empowering belief systems, teaching strategies to manage anger andor replace anger with compassion and forgiveness, strengthening a client's self-esteem, helping clients overcome anxiety and depression, and co-creating strategies with individuals, couples, families, and athletes to grow, evolve, achieve their goals, and enjoy the invigorating process of personal growth transformation.

How Psychotherapy Can Help

Psychotherapy with a seasoned, talented, capable therapist is an invaluable resource for anyone wishing to overcome whatever challenges they're facing in their lives. In addition, an astute and skilled therapist or coach offers people an opportunity to develop even greater self-awareness, other-awareness, and emotional intelligence, and a sense of their own power, capacity to love, and capacity to be fully present in their lives. Finally, psychotherapy and coaching empowers people to design their lives in ways that align with their core values, guiding principles, and greatest passions.

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Services I Provide

  • Coaching
  • Family Therapy
  • Group Therapy
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    I facilitate personal and interpersonal growth work on behalf of adolescents, men, women, couples, families, twins, groups, athletes, creatives, entrepreneurs, and business owners.

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Anger
  • Breakup
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Family Problems
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Inadequacy
  • Individuation
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Other - Not Listed Here
  • Perfectionism
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Self-Actualization
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Love
  • Shame
  • Spirituality
  • Women's Issues
  • Workplace Issues

Types of Therapy

  • Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)
  • Anger Management
  • Body-Mind Psychotherapy
  • Clean Language, Symbolic Modeling, and Metaphor Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy (CCT)
  • Conflict Resolution Therapy
  • Depth Hypnosis
  • Emotional Freedom Technique
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Gottman Method
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT)
  • Journal Therapy
  • Jungian Psychotherapy
  • Motivational Enhancement Therapy (MET)
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)
  • Positive Psychotherapy
  • Psychodrama
  • Relationship Enhancement Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
  • Sport / Fitness Psychology
  • Time Line Therapy
  • Voice Dialogue
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