Gemma Drouhard Stilley, MA, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapy in Kirkland, Washington, 98034

Gemma Drouhard Stilley, MA, LMFT

Gemma Drouhard Stilley, MA, LMFT
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Gemma Drouhard Stilley, MA, LMFT

Professions: Marriage & Family Therapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Marriage and family therapist - LF60746842
Verified Credentials
1-800-651-8085 ext. 46170
Accepting new clients - Contact me!
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Office 1
9757 Juanita Drive NE
Suite 206
Kirkland, Washington 98034
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  • Accessible Parking
  • Wheelchair Accessible Restroom

Billing and Insurance

I am an in-network provider for:

  • First Choice Health
  • Kaiser Permanente
  • Premera

Fees: $120 for a 60-minute session
$150 for a 90-minute intake session

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I view therapy as a collaborative process, in which we work together to identify areas in your life that need healing. I will help you reach a place where you feel confident and hopeful about your future. I use a systemic approach and take into account your personal and cultural history. I will listen to you with compassion, and come up with a treatment approach that is right for you.

I use a mixture of Family Systems Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Using these three approaches allows me to view the whole person within the context of their environment. I believe our thoughts, behaviors, and feelings are all vital to creating change.

Email or Call Gemma Drouhard Stilley, MA, LMFT at 1-800-651-8085 ext. 46170

More Info About My Practice

I began my academic career at Western Washington University, with a degree in Psychology. I then attended the Marriage and Family Therapy program at Pacific Lutheran University, where I graduated with my Master's Degree. I then spent three years working with families affected by sexual abuse and assault, in addition to individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and trauma.

Currently, in my practice, I see children, teens, and adults Monday through Friday. I accept many insurance plans as well as out of pocket payment.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual abuse and assault recovery, incest recovery, sexual identity, self-esteem, gender identity, parenting, and relationship issues.

What I Love about Being a Psychotherapist

I am truly honored to witness the growth of my clients. I am continually amazed by how much bravery is shown just by opening up to a therapist and allowing themselves to be vulnerable. I enjoy working with each individual that enters my office. I have seen incredible transformation happen, and it is a privilege to be a part of it.

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Services I Provide

  • Family Therapy
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Premarital Counseling

Ages I Work With

  • Children
  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Survivors, teens, survivors of sexual abuse, survivors of sexual assault, gay and lesbian, bisexual, transgender

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Body Image
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Fear
  • First Responders
  • Gender Dysphoria
  • Identity Issues
  • Incest
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Panic
  • Parenting
  • Perfectionism
  • Phobias
  • Physical Abuse
  • Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships
  • Post Partum Depression
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Pregnancy and Birthing
  • Racism
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • School issues
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm
  • Self-Love
  • Sensitivity to Criticism
  • Sexual Assault / Abuse
  • Sexuality / Sex Therapy
  • Social Anxiety / Phobia
  • Stress
  • Teen violence/dating violence
  • Values Clarification
  • Women's Issues
  • Worry
  • Worthlessness
  • Young Adult Issues

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

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