Eric van der Voort


Eric van der Voort


Telehealth Available
Professions: Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Psychologist
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

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San Diego, California 92103
Del Mar, California 92014

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My Approach to Helping

If you have concerns about your sex or sexuality (orientation, desire discrepancies, performance anxiety, sex or porn "addiction," interest in kink and BDSM, or being in a non-monogamous or poly relationship), the search for help can feel overwhelming at times. No matter how big or small your sexual and relationship concerns might seem, you are not alone. Just like you, many people find it difficult to navigate the complexities of sex, arousal, and relationships. However, those who get the right support for their mental and sexual health are often calmer, more confident, experience more pleasure, and feel more fulfilled in life overall.

I specialize in kink-affirming sex therapy of all kinds, including helping straight-identified men to understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women. Tailored to your unique individual needs and goals, my approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based.

If you want to better understand and appreciate yourself as a sexual being, or if you'd simply like to better manage life’s stresses, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and explore new ways of pursuing pleasure, then you're in the right place! Call me so we can discuss your goals and how to help you reach them. I look forward to hearing from you.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

Issues related to incorporating kink or BDSM practices, engaging in alternative lifestyles or relationship structures, problems with sexual performance and desire, exploring sexuality and eroticism, assertive communication in relationships, and the use of pornography, masturbation, andor substances that conflicts with your values.

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Services I Provide

  • Clinical Supervision
  • Consultation
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Adults


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Adults with concerns about sex and sexuality, such as exploring sexuality and eroticism, misuse of pornography or sex, performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, exploring kink and BDSM practices, and navigating polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships.

Industries & Communities Served

  • Entertainment Industry
  • First Responder/Medical Professionals
  • LGBTQ+
  • Self-Employed and Freelance Professionals

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Anxiety
  • Breakup
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Drug and Alcohol Addiction
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Men's Issues
  • Military and Veterans Issues
  • Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sex Addiction
  • Sexuality / Sex Therapy
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
  • Worry

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Exposure Therapy
  • Humanistic Psychology (humanism)
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Mindfulness-Based Interventions
  • Object Relations
  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)
  • Process Oriented Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational Psychotherapy
  • Schema Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)

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