My Approach to Helping
I'm a licensed professional counselor, a trained sex therapist and an experienced relationship therapist. I specialize in therapy with men and couples. I've helped men of all ages work through sex and pornography addictions, chronic infidelity, sexual and social anxiety, erectile failure, premature and delayed ejaculation, middle and later life changes in sex drive and sexual functioning, sexual identity and gender identity concerns, and difficult life transitions like separation, divorce, and retirement. I help couples navigate the challenges of infidelity, desire discrepancy, chronic conflict, and alternative sexual styles like polyamory, BDSMkink, and open relationships.
Individuals and couples often come to me in crisis due to infidelity, sex and pornography addiction, sexual incompatibility, cybersex addiction, sexual dysfunction, separation-divorce, and the painful grief and loss any of these situations can bring. Many of my clients are working through sexual performance problems from work stress, relationship stress, or mid-life transition issues. I'm also experienced and trained to work with issues stemming from bereavement and loss.