My Approach to Helping
You are smart, driven and capable but for some reason you are struggling to feel understood in your relationship. You wish you felt comfortable talking to your partner when something upsets you without worrying that you will hurt their feelings or seem needy or weak. You have worries and anxieties around your sex life because it’s not as satisfying as it used to be, or sex sometimes feels like it happens out of habit or obligation.You went to bed alone last night and when you think about how long it’s been since the last time the two of you made love you are starting to fear that this might not be just a phase. In the midst of this rough patch, you are looking for help to reconnect, reduce the conflict and increase the intimacy.
Couples come to work with me when they want to look at each other and remember why they chose to be together, even when things are hard. I help couples move from emptiness and disconnection to warmth and closeness. I help partners raise the bar in their relationship and learn how to have hard conversations that lead to more intimacy and connection, instead of tearing each other apart. I help couples find their own unique sexual style that fits them both. And sometimes I help partners uncouple with dignity in a way that will help them maintain their integrity in the face of all the decisions that they still have to make together.