
{"id":42056,"date":"2022-11-09T15:51:53","date_gmt":"2022-11-09T20:51:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/?p=42056"},"modified":"2023-07-27T15:45:18","modified_gmt":"2023-07-27T19:45:18","slug":"self-help-exercises","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/self-help-exercises\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Self-Help for Mental Health?\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">We all go through tough times. So, it&#8217;s important to know that there are things we can do to help ourselves feel better. Self-help is one way to do just that.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">While it\u2019s often associated with books or groups, self-help can refer to any type of activity that a person does to improve their well-being. Self-help methods provide individuals with powerful tools to help manage and improve their mental health.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What Are Some of the Benefits of Self-Help?<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help methods can improve self-esteem, communication skills, and coping skills. By taking the time to focus on your thoughts and feelings, you can gain insights into why you think and feel the way you do.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Many <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nami.org\/Blogs\/NAMI-Blog\/January-2019\/Self-Help-Techniques-for-Coping-with-Mental-Illness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">self-help techniques<\/span><\/a> <span data-contrast=\"auto\">are often used as homework assignments by therapists or counselors\u00a0 to help patients better understand their feelings and behavior.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help methods can be used in conjunction with other forms of therapy, or on their own.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Many don\u2019t require a professional psychologist or counselor, making them great options for people who are uncomfortable with traditional therapy.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Additionally, self-help exercises are convenient, accessible, and flexible.\u00a0 They can be done at your own pace, at any time, and in any place.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-41694\" src=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/GettyImages-1210523597-1-800x522.jpg\" alt=\"GoodTherapy | find a therapist\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/GettyImages-1210523597-1-800x522.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/GettyImages-1210523597-1-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/GettyImages-1210523597-1-1536x1002.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/GettyImages-1210523597-1-2048x1336.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 aria-level=\"2\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What Types of Self-Help are Available?<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">When it comes to self-help, there are many different options available. Here are some of the most common:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 aria-level=\"3\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help books<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help books provide readers with advice and tips on how to improve their lives. Although self-help books are often associated with topics like anxiety and depression, they can cover a wide range of topics, including career development, relationships, and personal finance.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">In addition to offering practical advice, self-help books can also provide motivation and inspiration. Whether you&#8217;re looking for ways to overcome challenges or just want some helpful tips on self-improvement, self-help books can be an excellent resource.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 aria-level=\"3\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help groups<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help groups are groups of people who share a common problem or concern and come together to share their experiences, offer advice, and encourage one another. They can provide people with much-needed support and guidance during difficult times.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help groups can be beneficial for people who don&#8217;t have anyone they feel comfortable talking to. They can help people to feel less alone and more empowered to take control of their lives.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Those who participate in moderated self-help groups are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthyplace.com\/self-help\/self-help-information\/what-is-a-self-help-group-types-examples-benefits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">50% less likely<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> to be hospitalized due to their mental illness than people who simply go to therapy or other programs that do not include self-help strategies.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Online resources like GoodTherapy can help you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/workshops\/support-group\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">find support groups<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> of various kinds in your local area.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 aria-level=\"3\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help exercises<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help exercises usually consist of simple activities that are helpful for reducing anxiety and depression, improving self-esteem, and increasing coping skills.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Some self-help exercises may involve relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation. Others may focus on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/addressing-denial-through-self-examination-mind-body-soul-0531197\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">self-examination<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> or showing yourself more <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/7-ways-to-overcome-perfectionism-and-cultivate-self-compassion-0719194\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">compassion<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help exercises are often used in conjunction with other treatments, such as therapy or medication. However, self-help exercises can also be used on their own as a starting point to help improve mental health and well-being.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-41536\" src=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/GettyImages-1300136805-1-800x534.jpg\" alt=\"GoodTherapy | self-help exercises\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/GettyImages-1300136805-1-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/GettyImages-1300136805-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/GettyImages-1300136805-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/GettyImages-1300136805-1-2048x1367.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 aria-level=\"2\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What are Some Self-Help Exercises to Help with Anxiety and Depression?<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p aria-level=\"2\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help exercises can be a great way to help manage anxiety and depression. There are many different types of self-help exercises, but they all have one goal in mind\u2014to help you feel better.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p aria-level=\"2\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Here are three self-help exercises that can help to relieve anxiety and depression:<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 aria-level=\"3\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Decatastrophizing<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Depression is a serious medical condition that can cause a range of emotional and physical problems, including distorted thinking. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/psychpedia\/cognitive-distortion\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Cognitive distortions<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> are internal mental filters or biases that increase our misery, fuel our anxiety, and make us feel bad about ourselves.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">One common form of cognitive distortion is called catastrophizing. This is when someone persistently believes that the worst will happen. They often exaggerate the difficulties they face and believe their situation is worse than it really is.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">By learning to question\u00a0 your own thoughts, it is possible to correct many cognitive distortions. Decatastrophizing is a self-help exercise that involves challenging irrational thoughts and beliefs about a situation to reduce anxiety and depression.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Decatastrophizing exercises can help you view potential problems in a more realistic light.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">For example, if someone believes that their life is ruined after making one mistake, they may be more likely to feel depressed.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">However, if they challenge this belief and instead acknowledge that mistakes are normal and that they can learn from them, they may feel less hopeless.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Challenge negative thoughts<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p aria-level=\"3\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Anxiety, depression, and poor self-esteem often are the results of irrational negative thoughts. Many of our negative thoughts are not based on any evidence or reality. They operate mostly on beliefs and assumptions about ourselves based on our past experiences.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Challenging negative thoughts involves recognizing negative or unhelpful thoughts, such as &#8220;I&#8217;m not good enough&#8221; or &#8220;Nothing ever goes right for me,&#8221; and then replacing them with more realistic and positive alternatives\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">For example, instead of thinking &#8220;I&#8217;ll never be able to do this,&#8221; you might tell yourself &#8220;I can learn how to do this if I&#8217;m willing to put in the effort.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Planning rewards and consequences<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help exercises can also be beneficial for parents. Developing a plan for rewards and consequences is a great exercise for parents who need help modifying their child\u2019s behavior.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Creating a list of both the rewards and the consequences of certain behaviors helps your child understand what is expected of them, and what they can expect in return. This can help to ease tensions and anxiety, as well as provide a sense of structure for both you and your child.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Once you have created your list, you can then review it with your spouse or partner to see if there are any additional ideas they may have. By taking the time to self-help, you can ensure that you\u2019re making the best decisions for your family.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">When developing a rewards system, it\u2019s important to include both positive reinforcement (for good behavior) and negative reinforcement (for bad behavior). It\u2019s also important to be consistent with the rewards and consequences that you provide.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\"> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-41285\" src=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Waiting-Election-Results-800x534.jpg\" alt=\"GoodTherapy | self help\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Waiting-Election-Results-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Waiting-Election-Results-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">How Do I Get Started with Self-Help?<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:true,&quot;134233118&quot;:true}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-help can be a great option for people who want to take a more active role in managing their mental health. But with so many choices, it can be difficult to know where to begin.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">One of the most important things to remember is that self-help is not a one-size-fits-all solution. The best way to find what works for you is to experiment and be willing to try new things.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">GoodTherapy<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> believes that with the right support, anyone is capable of healing, growth, and change.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all go through tough times. So, it&#8217;s important to know that there are things we can do to help ourselves feel better. Self-help is one way to do just that.? ?While it?s often associated with books or groups, self-help can refer to any type of activity that a person does to improve their well-being. 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