{"id":32367,"date":"2016-07-14T08:00:51","date_gmt":"2016-07-14T15:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/?p=32367"},"modified":"2017-04-28T14:11:41","modified_gmt":"2017-04-28T21:11:41","slug":"how-to-manage-stress-and-stay-positive-while-unemployed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/how-to-manage-stress-stay-positive-while-unemployed-0714165","title":{"rendered":"How to Manage Stress and Stay Positive While Unemployed"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"AdultWhen you find yourself between jobs and under pressure to find a new one as quickly as possible, depression<\/a> and anxiety<\/a> are real risks. Attending interview after interview and receiving rejections\u2014or, worse, hearing nothing\u2014can be discouraging, especially when the interviews seemed to go well, and feelings of frustration, anger<\/a>, and depression can develop. Anxiety can accompany these feelings: What if I mess up this interview? What if I can\u2019t find a job? How will I pay my bills? How will I provide for my family?<\/p>\n

These thoughts can be debilitating. They may loop repeatedly, keeping you up at night, affecting your mood<\/a>, and causing more stress<\/a>. Thought patterns like these also have the potential to affect productivity and the ability to think clearly, which can have a negative impact on the job-hunting process.<\/p>\n

To improve your outlook and ability to think clearly, deeply, and strategically during your job search<\/a>, try the following tips:<\/p>\n

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Separate Planning from Doing<\/h2>\n

When you are anxious about your career prospects, you may find yourself wanting to do something\u2014anything<\/em>\u2014to get a job. But anxiety can narrow your thinking tremendously. You may find yourself making list after list, plan after plan, but stall before completing these tasks. Separating planning from doing can make it easier to stay productive and focused on realistic goals. Planning the steps you will take in the following days and weeks can be helpful, but carrying out the steps you\u2019ve listed is not only likely to help you feel a sense of achievement, but may pay off in the form of a job.<\/p>\n

Write It Down<\/h2>\n

Set aside a specific time every\u00a0evening\u00a0to write down how you will make the best use of the next day. Doing it in the evening is key. If you try to do this in the morning, there is a sense of urgency that compels you to just do\u00a0something<\/em>, and this is likely to detract from your focus rather than increase it. Actually put pen to paper so your plan can be by your bedside when you wake up and so you can cross things off when you finish them. Making a plan for the next day at night can also help you relax<\/a> before bed: you’ll already know what you need to do the next day, and you can take a break from thinking about it.<\/p>\n

Exercise Daily<\/h2>\n

Include at least an hour of exercise in your daily written schedule. Exercise can boost your mood, help relieve stress, and help you sleep. An added benefit of exercise is a change of scene: sitting at home in front of a computer or on the phone can make anyone short-sighted. Movement, fresh air, and activity can help you regain perspective.<\/p>\n

Try Strength Training<\/h2>\n

Consider strength training in addition to daily cardiovascular exercise. Strength training does more than build muscles: it can improve self-confidence, which can be a benefit when trying to sell yourself in the job market. A gym membership isn\u2019t necessary: push-ups, crunches, dips, squats, and calf raises are all great exercises that require no equipment. A mini-workout is also an excellent antidote for moments of paralyzing stress. For moments of extreme anxiety, try spending five or 10 minutes doing super-sets.<\/p>\n

Don’t Isolate<\/h2>\n

An item that should be on every job hunter\u2019s daily schedule is social contact. Social contact might be meeting a friend for lunch or even a phone conversation with a supportive family member. Many people instinctively react to hard times by isolating<\/a>, but this tendency is often a factor in feelings of depression and anxiety. Resisting the urge to isolate can help combat these feelings and may prevent them from developing or becoming overwhelming.<\/p>\n

Find Fun Things to Do That Are Free or Inexpensive<\/h2>\n

Money being tight can have an impact on your typical social activities, but don’t let that keep you stuck in the house. <\/span><\/p>\n

Money being tight can have an impact on your typical social activities, but don’t let that keep you stuck in the house. Think of things to do that cost little or nothing, and invite someone you care about to join you. Make plans to take a walk, prepare a meal from scratch, or host a tea or coffee social. Keep an eye out for free things to do. Libraries often have daytime, weekend, and evening activities for children or adults, and many museums have free admission one day a month.<\/p>\n

Be There for Others<\/h2>\n

Being in between jobs doesn’t mean you have nothing to offer\u2014you are still the good friend you were when you had money. If it becomes challenging to believe this and self-doubt<\/a> or self-pity become overwhelming, think of someone who might like to hear from you and give them a call or send a text. Volunteering is another way to fight isolation, and it has the added benefit of allowing you to give back to the community. Volunteering can also provide valuable networking opportunities.<\/p>\n

Keep a Regular Sleep\/Wake Schedule<\/h2>\n

Going to bed and waking up at the same time every day can help you stay productive and will also regulate your mood. Set an alarm Monday through Friday, and go to bed early enough to get a full night’s sleep so you are well-rested and ready to do your best in the morning. When you have a whole day to yourself it can seem like you have all the time in the world, but this time goes by quickly. Having a plan for each day can help you make the most of your working hours and help prevent feelings of self-recrimination at the end of the day. A regulated sleep\/wake pattern may reduce the risk of depression or be part of a treatment strategy. Eating and exercising at the same time each day can help, too.<\/p>\n

Take Time for Reflection to Solidify Learning<\/h2>\n

Taking time to reflect can increase your chances of learning from your experiences. At the end of each day, look at your list and cross off the things you’ve accomplished. Try writing down\u00a0what you feel proud of accomplishing that day.\u00a0Give yourself credit for the steps you took, big or small, toward re-employment and toward staying focused and healthy. Consider whether there is anything you want to do differently the next day. Did you learn any lessons or discover any changes to make? Put your energy into making these changes, not being hard on yourself for any mistakes, in order to have an even more productive day tomorrow.<\/p>\n

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