
{"id":27074,"date":"2015-03-12T08:00:46","date_gmt":"2015-03-12T15:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/?p=27074"},"modified":"2018-02-15T11:08:52","modified_gmt":"2018-02-15T19:08:52","slug":"5-ways-to-improve-your-mental-health-and-increase-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/5-ways-to-improve-your-mental-health-and-increase-happiness-0312155","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Improve Your Mental Health and Increase Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-27390 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/woman-looking-up-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Young woman enjoying the air\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-id=\"27390\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/woman-looking-up-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/woman-looking-up.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Your mental health affects your overall health more than you may realize. When you are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/stress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stressed out<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/stress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">angry<\/a>, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/psychpedia\/sadness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sad<\/a>, your body suffers, too\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwhether it be in the form of digestive issues, headaches, back pain, or any number of other physical symptoms.<\/p>\n<p>Most people I meet in my practice want to improve their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/psychpedia\/what-is-wellness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">well-being<\/a> and increase their daily <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/psychpedia\/happiness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">happiness<\/a>, but they often feel powerless to make it happen. It can be easy to fall into the trap of thinking that our problems are entirely outside our control or caused by other people. Simply by changing our own actions and establishing new habits, many things may begin to improve. When you are happy and at peace, your body feels better and you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re able to respond to challenging\u00c2\u00a0situations in more effective ways.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, many people turn to pills to achieve that outcome. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2011), about 35 million adults in the United States take <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/drugs\/antidepressants.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">antidepressant medication<\/a>. Medication alone generally won&#8217;t make a person feel better, but there is a great deal of research to support the effectiveness of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/individual-therapy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychotherapy<\/a> and lifestyle changes, and medication in combination with those things has been shown to be helpful for some people.<\/p>\n<p>Here are five things you can do to start feeling better without the aid of pharmaceuticals:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Exercise<\/h2>\n<p>I love my workout videos. In one of my favorites, fitness trainer Jillian Michaels says, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153When you feel strong in your body, you feel strong in your mind.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d I agree, and so does mental health research! Numerous studies have linked regular exercise to improvements in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/psychpedia\/mood\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mood<\/a> and decreased <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a> (e.g., Childs and de Wit, 2014; Aguedelo et. al., 2014; and Shoenfeld et. al., 2013).<\/p>\n<div class=\"content-fatwidget align-right\">\n\t<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/find-therapist.html\" target=\"_blank\">Find a Therapist<\/a><\/h2>\n\t<form action=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/search-redirect.html\" method=\"get\">\n\n\t\t\t<input required name=\"search[zipcode]\" placeholder=\"Enter ZIP or City\" class=\"inline-input\" type=\"text\" \/>\n\n\n\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"TOS agreement\" value=\" \" class=\"inline-btn\" title=\"Search\" onclick=\"ga('send', 'event', 'FAT Widget', 'Submit Search', 'Sidebar', {nonInteraction: true});\" \/>\n\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/advanced-search.html\" title=\"Advanced Search\" onclick=\"ga('send', 'event', 'FAT Widget', 'Advanced Search', 'Sidebar', {nonInteraction: true});\" >Advanced Search<\/a>\n\t<\/form>\n<\/div>\n<p>In essence, exercising helps your brain chemicals to work correctly. When they do, many things about your health and well-being improve. Exercise is so good for mental health that, in many studies, it has been shown to be as effective as antidepressant medication (e.g., Blumenthal et. al., 1999). I frequently recommend at least 45 minutes of vigorous exercise\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthink workout class or a run\/jog in the park\u00e2\u20ac\u201dabout five times a week. Making this part of your routine can help lift your mood, decrease anxiety, boost self-confidence, reduce negative thinking and worries, and improve sleep. Plus, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s one of the best anti-aging secrets! When you exercise, your body is more effectively oxygenated, which helps prevent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/aging\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">signs of aging<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Eat &#8216;Happy&#8217; Foods<\/h2>\n<p>&#8220;Happy&#8221; foods\u00e2\u20ac\u201dfoods that either improve mood or help to make you feel calmer\u00e2\u20ac\u201dcan be a bit of a catch-22 because some of these foods help in the moment but make things worse in the long run. These foods are what we often call \u00e2\u20ac\u0153comfort foods,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d such as macaroni and cheese, pie, and fries. They do work to make you feel better quickly, so they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re an easy trap to fall into.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers believe that comfort foods may be comforting because they alter the brain\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s response to sadness. A better strategy, however, is to make a habit of eating foods that build up the brain\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s \u00e2\u20ac\u0153good chemicals\u00e2\u20ac\u009d over time and keep them at healthy levels. These are the foods we often call \u00e2\u20ac\u0153super foods,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d such as wild salmon (or other fish high in omega-3s but low in mercury), berries (especially blueberries), whole grains, green vegetables (kale is the king of them all), avocado, nuts, and seeds.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Volunteer or Make a New Friend<\/h2>\n<p>Social support is one of the best predictors of health and longevity. Volunteering is a great way to both get out of your own head (spending too much time in your head may lead to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/worry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">excessive worrying<\/a>) and to make new friends. Resolve to make at least one new friend this year, and volunteer at least a few hours a month.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Understand\u00c2\u00a0Your Thinking Style<\/h2>\n<p>One of the reasons we sometimes get into a funk\u00e2\u20ac\u201dand we all do from time to time\u00e2\u20ac\u201dis that we make \u00e2\u20ac\u0153thinking errors.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d To eliminate these errors, familiarize yourself with what they are and begin to notice when you do them. Thinking errors (sometimes called \u00e2\u20ac\u0153unhelpful thinking styles\u00e2\u20ac\u009d) can lead to anger, sadness, anxiety, frustration, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/self-esteem\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">low self-esteem<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Below are a few examples:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Taking things personally:<\/strong> Most people\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s reactions to you are about them, not you. For example, if your boss is short-tempered and demanding, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s more likely related to his or her personality style than to your work performance. If you take it personally, you are likely to begin feeling angry, nervous, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">depressed<\/a>. If instead you can see it for what it is\u00e2\u20ac\u201da particular personality and communication style\u00e2\u20ac\u201dyou can focus on learning effective ways to work with this type of person.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Catastrophizing:<\/strong> That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the fancy name for \u00e2\u20ac\u0153making a mountain out of a molehill.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d If someone dies, that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s catastrophic, but almost anything short of that is simply a problem to be solved, a challenge to overcome, or something to be understood. When you notice yourself using language like \u00e2\u20ac\u0153terrible,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d \u00e2\u20ac\u0153awful,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and \u00e2\u20ac\u0153horrible,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d you are probably catastrophizing. Time to shift your words! Instead of saying, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153This is horrible! How will I get to work if they can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t fix my car today?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d you can say, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Darn, this is really inconvenient, so I need to find a way to solve this problem. Let me start thinking of possible solutions. Maybe my friend Martha can give me a ride.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Here\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s another example: Instead of thinking, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s terrible that Sophie is so rude to us at meetings,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d think to yourself, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Sophie\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s rudeness is unpleasant, but maybe she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not very good at dealing with pressure. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll just be kind to her and try to get to know her better. Maybe eventually that will help improve things.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Making assumptions and jumping to conclusions: <\/strong>I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have any data on this, but I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m pretty sure this leads to many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/divorce\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">divorces<\/a>. Partners (on both sides) are <em>very<\/em> good at making assumptions about the other partners\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 thinking, behavior, and intent, and often jump to conclusions. One of my favorite questions in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/marriage-counseling.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">marital therapy<\/a> is, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Did you ever ask him\/her if that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s what he\/she was thinking, intended, meant, etc.?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d People generally do not check their assumptions, and most of the time their assumptions are wrong.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>5. Get Some Sleep<\/h2>\n<p>We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re back to the brain chemicals! Your brain needs to sleep because that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s how it regenerates and keeps itself filled with happy brain chemicals. If you are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/learn-about-therapy\/issues\/sleep-disorders\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">not sleeping well<\/a>, it can contribute to developing mental health issues\u00c2\u00a0or exacerbating existing ones.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/find-therapist.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Working with a therapist<\/a> can help you learn effective techniques to calm your mind and relax your body after a busy day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>References:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Aguedelo, L.Z., Femenia, T., Orhan, F., et. al. (2014). Skeletal muscle PGC-1\u00ce\u00b11 modulates kynurenine metabolism and mediates resilience to stress-induced depression. <em>Cell<\/em>, 159 (1): 33-45.\u00c2\u00a0Retrieved from http:\/\/www.cell.com\/cell\/abstract\/S0092-8674(14)01049-6<\/li>\n<li>Blumenthal, J.A., Babyak, M.A., Moore, K.A., Craighead, W.E., Herman, S., Khatri, P., Waugh, R., Napolitano, M.A., Forman, L.M., Appelbaum, M., Doraiswamy, P.M., and Krishnan, K.R. (1999). Effects of exercise training on older patients with major depression. <em>Archives of Internal Medicine<\/em>, 159: 19, 2349-56.<\/li>\n<li>Childs, E., and de Wit, H. (2014). Regular exercise is associated with emotional resilience to acute stress in healthy adults. <em>Frontiers in Physiology.<\/em> 5: 161. Retrieved from http:\/\/ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4013452\/pdf\/fphys-05-00161.pdf<\/li>\n<li>Pratt, L.A., Brody, D.J., and Giuping, G. (2011). Antidepressant Use in Persons Aged 12 and Over: United States, 2005-2008. <em>Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: NCHS Data Brief,<\/em> 76. Retrieved from\u00c2\u00a0http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/nchs\/data\/databriefs\/db76.pdf<\/li>\n<li>Schoenfeld, T.J., Rada, P., Pieruzzini, P.R., Hsuesh, B., and Gould, E. (2013). Physical exercise prevents stress-induced activation of granule neurons and enhances local inhibitory mechanisms in the dentate gyrus. <em>The Journal of Neuroscience<\/em>. 33 (18): 7770-7777.\u00c2\u00a0Retrieved from http:\/\/www.jneurosci.org\/content\/33\/18\/7770.abstract<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Medication alone isn&#8217;t likely to lift your spirits or boost your mental health. Here are five do-it-yourself strategies that promote happiness and well-being.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2840,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[542],"tags":[31,25,47],"class_list":["post-27074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-featured-articles","tag-psychotherapy-practice","tag-psychotherapy-issues","tag-self-care"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27074","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2840"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27074"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27074\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}