{"id":18573,"date":"2013-05-29T11:00:04","date_gmt":"2013-05-29T18:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/?p=18573"},"modified":"2015-12-07T14:04:17","modified_gmt":"2015-12-07T22:04:17","slug":"a-sex-therapists-reading-list-guides-and-how-to-books-for-a-hot-summer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/sex-therapist-summer-reading-list-guides-0529135","title":{"rendered":"A Sex Therapist\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Reading List: Guides and How-to Books for a HOT Summer"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"WomanAs a sex therapist<\/a>, my professional library is often scoured and delighted in by colleagues and clients alike. The books on my shelf boast attention-grabbing titles and alluring content. As the summer heat approaches, why not read about heating up your sex and intimate life<\/a>? Below is an authentic peek into what is on my bookshelf, and what I regularly recommend to clients, family, and friends.<\/p>\n

The Heart of Desire: Keys to the Pleasures of Love<\/i> (2012) by Stella Resnick, PhD. Published by Wiley.<\/strong>
\nA highly user-friendly book exploring the love<\/a>-lust dilemma through the lens of the latest scientific research. Using everyday language, the author explains how early programming impacts sexual desire in committed partners. This book provides a body-mind program to sharpen the reader\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s skills for fulfilling sexual pleasure. Topic covered include: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153What Dampens Desire,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Sexual Health and the Body,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and \u00e2\u20ac\u0153The Nuances of Sexual Pleasure.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d It is a must-have for your library.<\/p>\n

Resurrecting Sex<\/i> (2002) by David Schnarch, Ph.D. Published by Harper.<\/strong>
\nThis book will assist you in creating erotic, meaningful sex whether you have had long-term difficulties, or just find yourself bored. For men and women alike, this is a fantastic self-help book for sexual difficulties. There are very few of us who don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t experience sexual difficulties at some point in our lives and relationships — why not read ahead as preventative care, or a solution to what has you stuck? From desire, to pain, to an elusive orgasm, this book can support you with a solution-focused approach for long term learning and development.<\/p>\n

The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: the Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written<\/i> (2002) by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans, Illustrations by Phoebe Gloeckner. Published by Cleis Press.<\/strong>
\nI can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t say enough about this book; it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s straightforward yet casual, informative yet fun to read. From erotica to technique, communication<\/a> to anatomy, this book has it all. I find it to be my go-to resource for quick and easy-to-understand information. This book is a great resource for wanting to learn about a specific aspect of sexuality, such as oral sex, to wanting to improve your masturbation experience. This book explores the world of sex toys, fantasies, and sex play. The illustrations are top-notch and educational. Ever wonder what a two-strap harness is? Or where the prostate gland is? These illustrations cover everything you wanted to know, and possibly more. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s a fun book to explore with someone or on your own.<\/p>\n

Pleasure: A Woman\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need and Deserve<\/i> (2006) by Hilda Hutcherson. Published by G.P. Putman\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Sons.<\/strong>
\nFor a woman<\/a>, reading this book is like having a girlfriend telling you what\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s what when it comes to orgasms, pleasure, and communicating with your partner about what feels good — not to mention helping you explore new ways and new locations for pleasure to be experienced and expanded upon. Hutcherson\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s savvy approach will give ladies a new perspective on their bodies and their bodies\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 potentials. This book takes the pressure off of the orgasm as the end goal, and instead provides us much more fulfillment in the journey.<\/p>\n

Tantric Sex: the Path to Sexual Bliss<\/i> (2008) by Kavida Rei. Published by Dorling Kindersley Publishing, Incorporated.<\/strong>
\nThis book ushers readers into understanding and embracing the beauty of tantric sex, while providing space for the reader to explore at their own pace. The book\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s back cover explains that it can provide you the opportunity for \u00e2\u20ac\u0153deeper self-knowledge, greater intimacy, and genuinely fulfilling relationships<\/a>.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d It also touts the discovery of \u00e2\u20ac\u0153mind-blowing sex\u00e2\u20ac\u009d — who couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t use some of that?! This book is full of beautiful photos to guide the reader into an experience of mindfulness, sacredness, and holistic sensation.<\/p>\n

Happy reading and enjoy the results!<\/p>\n

(Author’s note: I have no affiliation with the authors and I am in no way compensated by them for my suggestions.)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Denise C. Onofrey, MA, NCC – Put some more heat in your summer with these intimacy-enriching and educational titles, as recommended by a sex therapist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2595,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[31,25,41,139],"class_list":["post-18573","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-psychotherapy-practice","tag-psychotherapy-issues","tag-marriage-counseling-relationships","tag-sex-therapy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18573","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2595"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18573"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18573\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodtherapy.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}