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Part II – The Prerequisite Habits: Lessons Learned June 29, 2011 . 8 Comments
There’s a distinct set of habits that are shared by almost all people who know how to get their partners to be open-minded and receptive, and thanks to decades of painstaking relationship ... Read More
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Self-Esteem and Being Wrong April 18, 2011 . 17 Comments
Which of the following statements are true? People with high self-esteem: A. Are convinced they can never be wrong B. Don’t usually appreciate negative feedback C. Think whatever they ... Read More
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Tired of Complaining? Make a Request March 7, 2011 . 10 Comments
This article will make it all sound so easy. And, practically speaking, it is. The act of making requests is an extremely straightforward process. Similar to the choice to forgive someone, ... Read More
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Managing Criticism and Defensiveness in Relationships February 23, 2011 . 18 Comments
It seems that most couples struggle with criticism, though some tolerate it better than others. Nevertheless, criticism of, or from, your partner will happen periodically. This post provides ... Read More
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Part I – The Prerequisite Habits: Lessons Learned February 14, 2011 . 3 Comments
There’s a distinct set of habits that are shared by almost all people who know how to get their partners to be open-minded and receptive, and thanks to decades of painstaking relationship ... Read More
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Good Communication Skills and Cancer January 18, 2011 . 3 Comments
As the final part of this series, we will look at skills that are likely to make communication with your partner more successful. An important point to remember is that the goal of effective ... Read More
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Spending the Holidays at Home December 7, 2010 . 4 Comments
Home for the holidays– for some, this phrase evokes warm memories of family gathered together. For others, the phrase evokes a tremendous amount of anxiety, wondering how to manage complex ... Read More
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Understanding: It’s What’s Missing in Most Relationships December 7, 2010 . 12 Comments
Couples get together because they believe in the idea of happiness. Couples stay together because they still believe they can achieve it. People in relationships pretty much want the same ... Read More
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Developing Mutual Concern between Mother and Child December 6, 2010 . 10 Comments
When a baby is born the process of Separation/Individuation begins. First, baby and mother are one. Mother has the wish to love and protect her baby. She wants to keep her from physical ... Read More
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Holiday Happiness: It’s a Choice! November 19, 2010 . 2 Comments
Do you dread the holiday season? Have you had a history of holiday events that have left you feeling angry, hurt and lonely? When you think about spending time with your family are you ... Read More
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Everyone Around Me is Breaking Up: Is Divorce Contagious? November 8, 2010 . 5 Comments
Oh no, another couple you know is getting a divorce! Do you think it’s contagious? Are you worried that break-ups are like a virus you could catch? It’s true that if you already have ... Read More
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Creativity and the Relationship with Yourself September 3, 2010 . 8 Comments
The relationship you have with yourself can directly affect your creativity. When faced with the blank canvas or computer screen, you must also face your internal process. How you relate ... Read More