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Premarital Counseling: Early and Often May 24, 2011 . 15 Comments
I’m a big proponent for pre-marital counseling, although I don’t market myself specifically as a premarital counselor, (and there are some therapists who do specify their work ... Read More
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What is Your Play Philosophy? May 17, 2011 . 11 Comments
Play is serious business! –Caitlin ‘Cake’ Gateaux I was asked by the US Play Coalition research committee to collect personal statements about ideas and beliefs that ... Read More
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Embrace Conflict as a Path to Deeper Connection May 10, 2011 . 14 Comments
Conventional wisdom says that having conflict in a partnership is “bad.” Most couples perceive conflict or its lack as a measure of a relationship’s strength or weakness. The truth ... Read More
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The Undeveloped Self and the Difficulty of Relationship May 9, 2011 . 6 Comments
When we describe the relationship between mother and infant, we understand that baby and mother are one. In that symbiotic relationship, there is merger. There are not two separate selves ... Read More
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Monitoring the “Heart” Rate May 6, 2011 . 5 Comments
With all of the technical gadgets available for monitoring information pertaining to running and exercise, one can get very “scientific” about training and performance. But despite ... Read More
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To Divorce or Not to Divorce, That Is the Question May 4, 2011 . 7 Comments
You’ve been together now for about 14 years. For the past four-to-five years, you’ve wondered if you can stay together any longer. You’re interests have changed, you don’t enjoy ... Read More
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When Your Spouse Doesn’t Believe You Have an Invisible Illness April 29, 2011 . 18 Comments
1 out of 2 people in the U.S. has a chronic illness and in 96% of these cases, the chronic illness is invisible. This means the illness is not readily apparent to others because the person ... Read More
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Supporting Someone With Postpartum Depression: What You Can Do to Help April 22, 2011 . 8 Comments
If you are the spouse, partner, significant other, or support person of a woman who is experiencing perinatal challenges, you are not alone. Over 20% of all childbearing women develop what ... Read More
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Research Suggests That Men and Women See Things Differently April 21, 2011 . 8 Comments
It has long been assumed that men see things in black and white while women tend to see things in full color. This can often lead to a communication breakdown between a man and a woman. ... Read More
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People-Pleasing and Looking for Mr./Ms. Right April 18, 2011 . 1 Comment
When I think about many of the clients I see in therapy, men and women who want to develop relationships, find partners, and have families of their own, there are many who become so focused ... Read More
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I’m Doing Everything I Can but My Marriage Still Isn’t Working, What Do I Do Now? April 4, 2011 . 14 Comments
Many people in relationships feel this way, exasperated because they are doing everything they know how to do to make their partner feel loved. Couples come into my office usually at the ... Read More
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Born this Way? Not Always True for Women April 1, 2011 . 10 Comments
I love Lady Gaga for her crusade to educate the masses about the normalcy of homosexuality as well as any personality quirk that might seem to make one person stand apart from the next. ... Read More