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Dieting: Our National Obsession April 19, 2010 . 6 Comments
A few days ago, I headed into the locker room at my gym after a workout. A TV was tuned to a morning talk show hosted by a couple of women who were talking to their guest, a dietician, ... Read More
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A GoodTherapy.org Review: Helpful Attachment Parenting Books March 22, 2010 . 4 Comments
There are a number of excellent books about attachment, parenting, and treatment. I will describe in this article two books I have written that both therapists and parents may find valuable. Attachment ... Read More
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Two Important Concepts in Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy February 10, 2010 . 2 Comments
In the previous articles about dyadic developmental psychotherapy I described points that I want therapists to take away from an introductory in dyadic developmental psychotherapy. I then ... Read More
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Patterns of Attachment in Adults December 3, 2009 . 9 Comments
In my previous article, Attachment: What Is It?, I defined attachment and explained it develops. The attachment system is a proximity-seeking system that evolved to ensure the survival ... Read More
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The 80/20 Rule: The Easy Way to Gain Cooperation November 27, 2009 . 1 Comment
The 80/20 Rule is an easy parenting tool that will not only change your life, but will also change your child’s entire life for the better. A magic ratio that lays the foundation for ... Read More
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Adult Attachment Styles Contribute to Recurring Relationship Problems November 13, 2009 . 5 Comments
If you are one of the many people out there who finds yourself in patterns of unhealthy relationships, perhaps you’ll benefit from identifying your attachment style—which not ... Read More
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The Four Patterns of Attachment in Children November 9, 2009 . 10 Comments
In a previous article, I defined attachment and explained how it develops. The attachment system is a proximity-seeking system that evolved to ensure the survival of the human infant. It ... Read More
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Enhancing Your Therapy Practice by Understanding Attachment September 30, 2009 . No Comments
Touted by many as the most powerful predictor of life successes, attachment is the foundation upon which all human relationships are built. It’s a wonder something this integral to ... Read More
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Attachment: What is it? September 30, 2009 . No Comments
In this first article I’d like to briefly describe what attachment is. Broadly speaking, “attachment” generally refers to a connection between you and another person or ... Read More
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Good News for Old School Behaviorists August 30, 2008 . 4 Comments
A team of researchers—three at Florida State University and one at Yale—have completed a persuasive study of behavior management training (BMT) for treating reactive attachment ... Read More
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Joined at The Hip? Nine Typical Dynamics that Represent Merging June 10, 2008 . 10 Comments
Fusion is defined as the desire for two people to merge into one another in personal relationships, and refers to an immature connection to the other fueled by a fear of separation. The ... Read More
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When Temper Tantrums Become a Way of Life April 10, 2008 . 22 Comments
Four year old Sarah throws temper tantrums, won’t go to bed, refuses to take a bath, and is described by her parents as “hell on wheels.” Peter, age seven, won’t ... Read More