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Residual Effects of Childhood Abuse in Female Adult Survivors
Many survivors of abuse have heard painful comments from others who didn’t get it, telling them their abuse was in the past and to get over it. But, sadly, childhood abuse causes ... Read More
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Decision-Making in Relationships: Knowing When to Give In or Dig In
Jonathan and Michelle came into my consulting office looking for someone to help them make a decision about Thanksgiving with Jonathan’s parents. Jonathan said Thanksgiving was his ... Read More
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What Hurts? Connecting Physical Pain to Emotional Health
I am often visited by people who have both physical and emotional concerns. They have visited numerous medical specialists in hopes of alleviating pain that continues to go undiagnosed ... Read More
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Anxiety: Can You Really Get Rid of It?
One of the most common requests I get from people in my psychotherapy practice is “Please help me get rid of this anxiety!” I have to explain to them that there is good news, and there ... Read More
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Enhancing Your Therapy Practice by Understanding Attachment
Touted by many as the most powerful predictor of life successes, attachment is the foundation upon which all human relationships are built. It’s a wonder something this integral to ... Read More
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Attachment: What is it?
In this first article I’d like to briefly describe what attachment is. Broadly speaking, “attachment” generally refers to a connection between you and another person or ... Read More
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Child Survivors of Abuse: It’s Time to Pay Attention
When a child gets killed, it gets our attention. Consider the words of Nicholas Scopetta, former Executive Director of The Administration of Children’s Services: “people may not understand ... Read More
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Private Sanctuary: Unlocking and Exploring the Unconscious
“Man’s task is to become conscious of the contents that press upward from the unconscious.” – Carl Gustav Jung “If She Walked into My Life Again” came onto the radio. ... Read More
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Money Matters: Using Our Power to Make Our World Safe From the Inside Out
A few weeks ago I spent the morning with a group of financial planners in Atlanta. It was a delicious experience from the moments before my talk began, when several of the members introduced ... Read More
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Psychotherapy and Meditation: Sitting with What Is
Sitting in meditation means sitting with what is. The challenge, of course, is that a lot of “what is” doesn’t feel very good: we experience fear, restlessness, grief, anxiety, ... Read More
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A Unique Learning About Power
Ten-year old Ann is playing outside on her family’s patio. There’s a bush at the edge of the patio with a funny-looking hanging sack attached to it. Ann watches as the sack ... Read More
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Money and the Inner Child
I have, until now, chosen not to write about peoples’ present fears surrounding money. I am making a conscious decision not to hook into the energy of fear surrounding it. Yet, over ... Read More
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Geriatric Psychotherapy: A Growing Need
Geriatric Psychotherapy: A Growing Need Thanks to active lifestyles, healthier diets, exercise, and advances in medicine and healthcare, Americans are ... Read More
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Recovering from a Traumatic Birth
Dealing with the Trauma of Giving Birth For many new mothers, giving birth is one of the most exciting times in life. After all, you’re bringing a ... Read More
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Wisdom for Working with Elder Therapy Clients
by Nicole Urdang, MS, NCC, DHM, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Buffalo, NY Wisdom for Working with Elder Therapy Clients While it is true that people ... Read More
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Taking Care of Children’s Mental Health
Taking Care of Children’s Mental Health When most of us think about folks going to therapy for mental health, we think about adults — people struggling ... Read More
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Dr. Aaron T. Beck: The Father of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Dr. Aaron T. Beck: The Father of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy On Monday, Nov. 1, the world lost an incredible psychiatrist when Dr. Aaron T. Beck, ... Read More
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How Do I Deal with Loneliness?
My life is a sad state of affairs. I have no real friends to speak of, just my cat Lula. Even she doesn't like me very much. I can't work because ... Read More
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What's the Best Way to Break Up?
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I don't see a future together. It was fun for a while, but now it feels stale and unexciting. ... Read More
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Help! I Think I'm Addicted to Video Games
I work. I eat and drink. I play video games. I sleep. Then I repeat. Every. Single. Day. Three of these things are necessities, but the ... Read More
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Help! My Therapist Ended Her Practice and I Don't Know What to Do
I had been seeing my therapist for 28 years. Around March, she was unwell. This was a rare occurrence in our time together. But her viral infection ... Read More
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Help! I Have No One to Talk To
Ever since my dad died last year, I have had no one to talk to. And really, I had no one to talk to for the last three years of his life, ravaged ... Read More