“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.” —Thích Nhất Hạnh
Historically, therapy has been all about the mind changing the mind, but what if your body could change your mind? Vietnamese monk Thích Nhất Hạnh believes it can. Scientific experiments also show when you smile, even if it feels fake and forced, the muscles in your face send a message to your brain that you feel good.
Of course, Thích Nhất Hạnh may be referring not only to physiology here, but also to the mind shifting into appreciation for the ability to smile. Not to mention the joy of smiling, for its own sake—being happy for no reason, as yogiraj Alan Finger used to say.
- Use yoga postures to activate your “prana.” Yoga has always recognized the relationship of the body to the mind, formulating postures that work with both body and mind to create greater physical and mental health. Forward-folding postures traditionally soothe the nervous system, while heart-opening, or backward-bending, poses energize it. All yoga activates your life force, or prana, to unkink stuck feelings on all levels: physical, psychological, and spiritual. Yin and restorative yoga practices are also worth exploring, as they can be calming and rejuvenating.
- Try the “Breath of Joy.” This is a simple little breathing exercise you can do anytime, even at work, to energize your body and calm your mind. Check out this two-minute tutorial.
- Open a door or window and take a few deep breaths of fresh air. This refreshing mini-break may clear your head and stop rumination.
- Close your eyes, lie down, and put an eye pillow on your eyelids. The light pressure activates the oculocardiac reflex, which slows the pulse by about 10%. It stimulates the vagus nerve and the parasympathetic nervous system—rest and digest—to soothe you into stillness. If you don’t have an eye pillow, you can make one with a sock filled with oats and tied at the open end.
- Take a walk. The rhythmic motion of alternating arms and legs in opposite directions activates the left and right hemispheres of the brain, creating hemi-sync, or balance.
- Drink something warm without caffeine. This will also activate your parasympathetic nervous system, creating an oasis of serenity.
- Hum or chant “OM.” You don’t have to be a yogi to enjoy the benefits of chanting. As you chant a mantra, your tongue moves against the hard palate of your mouth, stimulating 84 meridian points that then relay messages to the hypothalamus area of your brain. The hypothalamus is responsible for regulating the pituitary, which affects your sleep, hunger, moods, emotions, sexuality, and immune system.
- Put on some music with a great beat, then dance. The music itself is powerful, and rhythmic dancing can transport you to a slightly hypnotic trance wherein your obsessive thoughts may just float away.
- Try Jin Shin Jyutsu finger holds. This Japanese acupressure practice is incredibly simple, can be done anywhere, and really works. Hold each finger until you feel a pulse. An easy way to remember which finger is for which emotion is (stop) “Worry FAST.” Your thumb is for worry, the index finger is for fear, middle finger for anger, ring finger for sadness, and pinkie is for “too much” or feeling overwhelmed. Here’s a quick tutorial.
- Take a nap. This can also reboot your mind and body. It’s amazing how often lack of rest manifests as crankiness, impatience, feeling overwhelmed, and brain fog.
- To calm down fast, put the tip of your thumb to your mouth, make a seal, and blow while puffing out your cheeks. Hold for five to 10 seconds. By increasing pressure in your chest cavity, you stimulate your vagus nerve, which slows your heartbeat.
- Make a habit of eating all your meals, and throw in a couple of small snacks. Skipping meals creates low blood sugar and exacerbates a bad mood. Low blood sugar can create irritability, snappiness, annoyance, and a general sense of dissatisfaction.
- Give yourself an aromatherapy foot massage. Mix a couple of tablespoons of almond or melted coconut oil in a glass dish with a few drops of any essential oil you like. Peppermint may perk you up, while lavender is good for stress and pain relief. Using a small amount of oil, slowly massage your feet and toes. It’s a good idea to have a towel underneath, as oil can stain fabrics.
Any one of these physical interventions may have the power to change your mood. Try some the next time you want to switch emotional gears, and watch what happens.
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