Commitment Level of Newlyweds Predicts Marital Persistence

Just as death is ultimately always the result of a heart that stops beating, the death of a marriage is always the result of marital dissatisfaction. The unhappiness could be caused by infidelity, addiction, loss of trust, anger, or a number of other issues, but divorce usually occurs because one or both partners has reached a point where they no longer find any satisfaction in the marriage. Some committed couples, who are dependent on the marital bond, may eventually throw in the towel as a result of dissatisfaction, and yet others do not.

Dominik Schoebi of the Department of Psychology at the University of Fribourg in Switzerland theorized that perhaps commitment affected marital persistence even when a couple was dissatisfied. “Dependence and commitment do go hand in hand in the investment model, but whereas dependence is theorized to be a structural property of dyads, commitment is viewed as a psychological state that captures more directly the experience of being in the relationship and being joined to another person within it,” said Schoebi.

The level of commitment within a partnership is suggested to be linked to behaviors that positively maintain the relationship. But it may also be linked to the desire to have the relationship persist. To examine this further, Schoebi examined data from 172 newlyweds over an 11 year period using the Dedication Commitment subscale of the Commitment Inventory. After the first four years of the couples’ marriages, Schoebi found a direct link between commitment and marital satisfaction. Additionally, he found that the couples who divorced after 11 years also reported the sharpest declines in commitment. “This corroborates key predictions in models of interdependence in close relationships, but the most important contribution of this analysis is the finding that only one aspect of commitment—the inclination to maintain the relationship—accounted for variability in reported steps toward dissolution, in  actual dissolution, and in the behaviors wives displayed during problem solving, independent of relationship satisfaction.” Schoebi added, “Commitment may stabilize declining intimate partnerships, particularly when it is conceptualized as the inclination to maintain the relationship.”

Reference:

  1. Schoebi, D., Karney, B. R., & Bradbury, T. N. (2011, November 21). Stability and Change in the First 10 Years of Marriage: Does Commitment Confer Benefits Beyond the Effects of Satisfaction?. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Advance online publication. doi: 10.1037/a0026290

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  • sandra

    sandra

    November 30th, 2011 at 4:43 PM

    What is especially hard to navigate is when both partners do not show one another the same level of commitment and respect. It may start out that they both have the same feelings, but things change and things come up between them that for whatever reason they are unable to resolve together. And those are the relationships that really get to you, because it is sad when for one partner the marriage is still just chugging along but for the other it is already over.

  • k.evans

    k.evans

    November 30th, 2011 at 11:42 PM

    we say so much without even speaking out a single word.and commitment to a relationship is communicated in a million ways.

    and if one partner does not show the commitment then that is enough for the other to know.no need for words to be told.and when that happens then the marriage is in trouble!

  • Mallorie

    Mallorie

    December 1st, 2011 at 2:44 AM

    And this is why showing your love and commitment is so important…Why are men so cold and emotionless when it comes to showing your love, when it comes to showing your commitment? It wouldn’t kill them to show what is in their hearts once in a while..!

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