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How to Co-Parent with an Ex Who Parents Differently
When a couple with children separate or divorce, finding a way to co-parent successfully can be challenging. Even if the separation is the best course of action for a couple whose marriage ... Read More
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Who Could Have an Eating Disorder? Short Answer: Anyone
Many people harbor erroneous beliefs about eating and food issues—beliefs that may be encouraged by stereotypes frequently seen in modern media. Some might believe, for example, that ... Read More
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Resilience and Overwhelm: How Full Is Your ‘Container’?
Somatic psychotherapists often use the informal metaphor of a “container” in describing a person’s state of overwhelm or resilience. It’s a simple concept: If Janelle is experiencing ... Read More
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The Uncertainty Trap: Falling for Our Own Scary Stories
We live in uncertain times. What I find so funny about that statement is it’s never been untrue. We are, quite literally, surrounded by uncertainty. From the current political climate ... Read More
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What Are the ‘Should’ Statements in Your Dreams Telling You?
The language of dreams can seem foreign, especially for those of us who were not brought up honoring our dreams. However, when we chronicle our dreams and examine them more carefully, something ... Read More
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5 Ways to Embrace Being Single for the Holidays
It seems almost everywhere we turn, we’re reminded it’s the “most wonderful time of the year.” From holly jolly music to impossibly cheerful movies playing on a loop, it’s a seasonal ... Read More
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3 Ways Psychotherapy Can Help with Chronic Pain
I will never forget one woman who came to see me for help with chronic pain. This was a woman who stood tall—she gave off the image she was functioning well despite living with chronic ... Read More
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5 Ways to Practice Sexy Confidence
As a culture, we really don’t understand “sexy,” a concept that has been largely created for us. We don’t have to buy in, however. Almost daily, we see ads on television of ... Read More
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3 Things People with Autism Wish You Would Stop Doing
The more people on the autism spectrum I meet, the more I learn about my own biases and assumptions about them. Despite many years of working with families and raising my own autism-affected ... Read More
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The Biology of Calm: How Downregulation Promotes Well-Being
In my therapy practice, I dedicate considerable time to helping people understand what’s happening deep inside of them, in the layers of the nervous system where the conscious mind blurs ... Read More
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How to Discuss Cancer with a Child
When cancer hits home, it can be a lot for everyone to process. Questions may arise, many of which can’t be answered or might have complex or uncertain answers. Discussing cancer with ... Read More
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3 Ways Technology Can Negatively Impact Your Relationships
The information age has rapidly changed how we conduct ourselves in business, education, and in general human interaction. Advances such as email, instant messaging, and social media were ... Read More