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How to Support a Loved One Who Was Raped or Sexually Assaulted
The dreadful memory may rush to your mind in an instant: taking a phone call from your child, partner, or friend and learning they were the victim of rape or sexual assault. Your mind may ... Read More
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Let’s Get Physical: Stressing Your Body to De-Stress Your Mind
If there was an effective way to insulate yourself from the stressors of life, would you consider it? Activities such as meditation and yoga are oft-cited methods for achieving stress relief, ... Read More
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Women and Alcohol: Why the Effects of Drinking Hit Harder, Faster
I don’t like to admit it, but it’s true: generally speaking, women can’t handle their liquor as well as men. Although there are always exceptions, research indicates women are more ... Read More
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Not Just for Introverts and Loners: 5 Myths About Social Anxiety
“I was looking forward to the party and I liked everyone there, but afterward I felt so down. I couldn’t stop worrying about what I’d said that sounded stupid, or if I hurt someone’s ... Read More
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‘I’m Still Not Good Enough’: When Trauma’s Old Ghosts Resurface
You have explored your childhood emotional trauma, you have explored your triggers, and you have learned to reframe negative thoughts. You understand how your past experiences affect your ... Read More
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7 Tips for Communicating with Your Children About Your Divorce
Divorce is typically a sensitive and emotional event and can be quite difficult to talk about, especially with children. It is common for parents to struggle with how to talk to their children ... Read More
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Why You Should Consider Meditating Between Therapy Sessions
I may be biased, but I am a big believer in psychotherapy. If the conditions are right (a good fit, commitment, consistency, appropriate therapeutic boundaries), psychotherapy is often ... Read More
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The Mind-Body Connection: How Mental and Physical Wellness Are Linked
In ancient Greece, three doctors would see a patient together. They were the “knife” doctor, the “herb” doctor, and the “word” doctor. The people who ... Read More
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How Bulimia Got to Me—and How I’m Fighting Back
Editor’s note: The subject matter in this article may be triggering for those who experience body image issues, those coping with an eating disorder, and those who are in recovery. Recently ... Read More
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7 Ways to Dismantle the Stigma Surrounding Polyamory
When I meet other professionals, I am usually quick to say that I work with the LGBTQ+ community. It takes a longer conversation, usually, for me to include that I serve kinky and nonmonogamous ... Read More
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Why We Stay in Relationships That Hurt
Kristen started our first therapy session by sharing her story: “Dave and I began having an affair three years ago. I know he loves me. Our chemistry is off the charts. He said his marriage ... Read More
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How to Develop a Formal Loving-Kindness Meditation Practice
Do you remember the last time someone thanked or complimented you on a job well done? At one point or another, we have all experienced that warm, fuzzy feeling that comes from feeling appreciated. ... Read More