Lily J. Kotila, M.A., M.A.T., PhD(c), Counseling in La Jolla, California, 92037

Lily J. Kotila, M.A., M.A.T., PhD(c)

Lily J. Kotila, M.A., M.A.T., PhD(c)

Professions: Counselor, Marriage & Family Therapist, Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: MFT - 48698
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1-800-651-8085 ext. 31255
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7752 Fay Ave Suite B
La Jolla, California 92037
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  • Accessible Parking
  • Service Animals Welcome
  • Wheelchair Accessible Building

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Fees: $88 or a package of 5 for $350. (Comparable therapists with my training charge $150 for a therapeutic hour).

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"Connect the dots" of your life's blueprints in new ways. I am a psychological architect here to help you to transform perspectives, thinking, ways of talking and ways of behaving to manifest the life picture you want to create. "Life's Tool Box" can be filled with many tools within these 4 categories. On a spiritual level, there's nothing you don't already know. On a human level, I help to refract your situational reflection such that you become aware of it from new angles.

Email or Call Lily J. Kotila, M.A., M.A.T., PhD(c) at 1-800-651-8085 ext. 31255

My View on the Purpose of Psychotherapy

Therapy is about expanding awareness beyond problematic patterns of thought and behavior in order to create an ideal self. It is this higher self who will create the path for your human self such that you human self can relax, enjoy and love.

When one sees beyond Ego, I go ....and then I can be-in'

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Services I Provide

  • Clinical Supervision
  • Family Therapy
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Mediation
  • Online Counseling / Phone Therapy

Ages I Work With

  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    Heroin addiction & Opiate addiction: short acting, suboxone, methadone

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Anger
  • Attachment Issues
  • Breakup
  • Cancer
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Communication Problems
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Family Problems
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Health / Illness / Medical Issues
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma

Types of Therapy

  • Body-Mind Psychotherapy
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy
  • Depth Hypnosis
  • Emotional Freedom Technique
  • Energy Psychology
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Somatic Psychotherapy

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