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<title>A Moment that Took My Breath Away</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:15:53 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Ruth Subrin, M.A., MFT-AT</description>
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<title>Principles of Hakomi Body-Centered Therapy</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:06:46 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Jaffy Phillips, MA, Hakomi Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Trauma: Why Can?t I Just Forget About It?</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:26:31 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Susanne M. Dillmann, Psy.D., Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>A General Overview of Non-Directive Play Therapy</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:06:12 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Leslie H. Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, Play Therapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>EMDR As a Healing Tool in Traumatic Grief</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 5 Nov 2009 18:17:13 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Beth S. Patterson, MA, LPC, Grief &#38;amp; Loss Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Elements of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 3 Nov 2009 22:47:23 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Arthur Becker-Weidman, Ph.D., Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Gestalt Therapy &#34;Cycle of Experience&#34;</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:24:55 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By William &#34;Sandy&#34; Pryor, MA, LPC, MT-BC, Gestalt Therapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>An Introduction to Hakomi Body-Centered Psychotherapy</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:07:24 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Jaffy Phillips, MA, Hakomi Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Power and Sexual Arousal in the Abusive Relationship</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:46:50 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Roni Weisberg-Ross, L.M.F.T., Abuse Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>An Open Secret to All: We?re All Just Bozos on the Bus</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 7 Oct 2009 16:51:05 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Rachel Fleischmann, LCSW, Dance / Movement Therapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Emotional Pain and the Use of the Absent but Implicit in Narrative Therapy</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 4 Oct 2009 17:21:21 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Peggy Gold, MS, NCC, LMHC, Narrative Therapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Grief and Spiritual Transformation:  Healing Through Compassion</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 2 Oct 2009 16:22:00 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Beth S. Patterson, MA, LPC, Grief &#38;amp; Loss Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Spirituality: Maferefun Egun</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 2 Oct 2009 15:38:59 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Kalila Borghini, LCSW and Ordained Yoruba Priest, Spirituality Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Decision Making in Relationships: Three Important Values to Help you Know When to Give in or Dig in</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 2 Oct 2009 15:20:24 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Pamela Lipe, MS, LP, Relationships &#38; Marriage Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Take the Attachment Challenge</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 18:29:29 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Ce Eshelman, LMFT, Attachment Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>What is Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 15:59:10 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Arthur Becker-Weidman, Ph.D., Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Topic Expert Contributor</description>
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<title>Exploring the Unconscious</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 18:13:45 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Michael Etts, LMSW, NBCCH</description>
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<title>Psychotherapy and Meditation: Sitting with What Is</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:39:24 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Anne Ihnen, MA LMHC</description>
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<title>Ireland Grapples with Rise in Children Admitted to Adult Psych Facilities</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 1 Sep 2009 14:50:25 GMT</pubDate>
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<title>Kenya Holds Conference to Expand Mental Health Services</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 14:45:10 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org News Summary</description>
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<title>Walking Gains Recognition as Depression Helper</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:01:35 GMT</pubDate>
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<title>Lying in Therapy</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 3 Jul 2009 14:07:32 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Daniel Winger, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Disabled Therapist&#39;s Tale of Reborn Compassion, Earns Fervent Global Love of Lives Medal</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 10:25:33 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org News Update</description>
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<title>Know Thyself:  The Role of Awareness in Psychotherapy</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 13:49:01 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Gary Seeman, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Overcoming OCD: A Client-Therapist Success Story</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 09:48:52 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org News Update</description>
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<title>Deep Change II - Healing Your Relationship with Power Can Transform Your Organization</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 05:01:12 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Judith Barr, MA, LMHC</description>
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<title>Deep Change - Healing Your Relationship with Power Can Transform Your Organization</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 7 May 2009 20:39:13 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Judith Barr, MA, LMHC</description>
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<title>Psychotherapy and the Flywheel of Consciousness</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 2 Apr 2009 19:02:25 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by John Rhead, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Neglect</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 05:01:18 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Dennis Thoennes, Ph.D., ABPP</description>
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<title>Adapting Therapy: The Amish</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 05:01:48 GMT</pubDate>
<description>by Noah Rubinstein, LMFT</description>
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<title>Election Reflection: Did You Get What You Want, or Not?  Now What?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 06:01:36 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Judith Barr, MA, LMHC</description>
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<title>Therapists Are Human Too!</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 06:01:34 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Greg Madison, PhD</description>
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<title>A Recession Regression</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 06:18:19 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Judith Barr, MA, LMHC</description>
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<title>Awake People - Sexual Boundaries and Therapeutic Opportunity</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 06:00:26 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Dennis Thoennes, Ph.D., ABPP</description>
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<title>Depression Prediction Assessment Now On-line</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 8 Dec 2008 22:47:40 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org News Update Presented by Jolyn Wells-Moran, PhD, MSW</description>
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<title>Saying Goodbye</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 09:49:51 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Jeanine Austin, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Dignity</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 11:51:22 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Jeanine Austin, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Good Therapy - Holding You While You Unfold</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 05:01:17 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Written by Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>One Easy Thing You Can Do Today to Improve Your Relationship</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 02:59:42 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Barbi Pecenco, MA</description>
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<title>Good Therapy, Bad Therapy, &#38; Everything in Between</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 2 Jul 2008 02:39:55 GMT</pubDate>
<description>by Noah Rubinstein, LMFT</description>
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<title>Working with Childhood Grief:  A Case Study in Grief, Trauma and Abuse</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 01:47:00 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Beth Patterson, MA, LPC</description>
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<title>The Art of Soul Transformation: Self-Psychology and Creativity</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 01:12:44 GMT</pubDate>
<description>By Reverend Doctor Silvia R. Behrend</description>
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<title>Altruism and the Soul</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 09:00:49 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Cedar Barstow, M.Ed., C.H.T.</description>
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<title>History Taking in Therapy - What&#39;s Your Approach?</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 2 Apr 2008 01:51:06 GMT</pubDate>
<description>by Noah Rubinstein, LMFT</description>
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<title>Adolescent Counseling Activity: Measuring Your Future</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 04:22:57 GMT</pubDate>
<description>by Jaelline Jaffe, PhD</description>
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<title>Life by Any Other Name Is? Life.</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 4 Mar 2008 02:43:44 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Dennis Thoennes, Ph.D., ABPP</description>
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<title>Would You Marry Yourself? Or Someone Like You?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 8 Feb 2008 02:53:21 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Would You Marry Yourself? Or Someone Like You?</description>
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<title>One of Us</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 5 Feb 2008 01:46:11 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A GoodTherapy.org Featured Column written by Greg Madison, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>Focusing for the Therapist</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 8 Oct 2007 01:15:49 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Written by Greg Madison, Ph.D.</description>
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<title>The Power of Words</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 23:53:57 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Written by Lisa Collazo, MSW</description>
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<title>Your Body?s Talking: Are You Listening?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 12 Aug 2007 23:59:16 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Written by Marcia Singer, MSW, CHt</description>
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<title>Do you believe ?Personality Disorder? diagnoses are pathologizing?</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2007 20:42:41 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Recently, someone asked GoodTherapy.org to include Personality Disorders within our list of Concerns Addressed (this is the list of concerns that people can select when searching for therapists and the list that all members select from when creating their listing). Our decision was a unanimous ?no? and we thought it would be fair to explain why and to give our members the chance to make an argument for the use of the ?Personality Disorder? diagnosis. I should say that we do support the inclusion of &#34;personality disorder&#34; symptoms in our list of concerns and we are currently working on translating these to fit into our list.... Please feel free to add your comments to this discussion below by clicking on the comments link directly below this post.</description>
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<title>Sometimes We Can?t Help</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 7 Mar 2007 14:43:13 GMT</pubDate>
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<title>Solving without Solving = Good Therapy</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2007 20:48:03 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Have you ever felt upset about something and just wanted somebody to listen to you? I know my dear wife has asked me on a number of occasions to ?just listen.? Even I, as a therapist who helps and guides others to listen to each other day in and day out, can find it hard to relax the impulse to do something about it. Yes, part of it is because I care. But moreover it&#39;s because it can be hard to sit with how I feel to see another suffer?.  And trust me, I intimately know the misunderstood feeling I have when someone?s anxiety gets triggered by my expression of some minor suffering I?m experiencing. I know the feeling of wishing my uncle could just listen to me or give me a hug when he, instead, tells me what I should do, or worse, tells me some universal truth like, ?It?ll get better.?  I know he?s only trying to help me and trying to shield himself from his own discomfort at seeing his nephew not perfectly okay, and I love him for it regardless. I know this doesn?t sound like it has much to do with therapy, but I believe it does; and on a deeper level than just a therapist not solving their clients&#39; problems. The realm of the intra-client relationship, the way one relates to his or her inner world/ego states/parts, is where I believe the truth that solving one?s problems with a little ?s? actually interferes with Solving one?s problems with a big ?S,? shows itself quite profoundly. Let me explain by telling a story:</description>
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<title>How do You Heal Trauma Without Re-traumatizing?</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2007 18:24:13 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A common concern that many people have in therapy is a fear that if they go close to the old feelings they?ve exiled, they?ll get overwhelmed and re-experience the original trauma. It makes sense that anyone who has spent years avoiding vulnerable feelings would be afraid of doing the opposite. Nonetheless, I know there are many creative ways therapists help people to heal trauma successfully, without flooding or overwhelming. I thought it would be interesting to ask others to comment on how they help people to go near the pain without overwhelming or making the trauma worse.</description>
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